Friends

I think it’s weird that most of us claim WANT to make GENUINE “Friend” connections But I Connect with some ladies yall be so damn DRY. It’s not that hard to hold a conversation.

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Lol drag me.
I’m guilty of wanting connection but not putting effort into it like it requires. Life be lifing.
How’s your weekend going though?

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Damn….🫣…..IM SORRY. Life be lifing ain’t even the half. I’m so guilty of this. How are you?
About to get dressed & step out to run into some stores & shop for some wedding items.

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I think a lot of moms be having so much going on that some times they forget they have the app but when I was first interested. Nobody was really interested in becoming friends and linking up but idk the app be dry to

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Yea, it seems to happen. Many have excuses of being busy. I think we all are no matter what stage. I know i am guilty of thinking I replied forget to hit send. An excuse but I do the same with texting sometimes, but not all the time.

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lol hey I’m well. I just got off work… I Know Life be coming fasting then me 😭😭 I Get that. It’s always the one word reply’s lol Hru tho?

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I Know and Understand that I’m a horrible texter I’m a talker lol but I just got off work not to long ago… congrats your getting married??

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Yea true it’s just the lack of effort I’m not gone keep speaking to the same person and they be dry asl 😶‍🌫️😭

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yea including me I rather talk on the phone that’s the quickest way to connect and vibe over DMing each other

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yea. Been engaged & together for foreva!! 😒 But finally walking down the aisle.

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I promise I think I am bogus as hell but I can Never shake my kids. I really be trying to run 🏃‍♀️ out the house & want to just have like a 30-minute wine sesh @ Coopers Hawk or something but not sure who has availability to run out last-minute ….

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Anyone down to have a monthly meet & greet? Maybe it’s just me but I feel everything is better w/ drinks 🍹
New brunch spot each month?

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CONGRATULATIONS 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

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I never been to Cooper’s hawk 😵‍💫😵‍💫😭

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I’m down for a good brunch meet girl

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it’s not bad. It’s a cute bar style stand up for wine tasting here on Cicero & 111th. My sister said the one in Orland is better service.
FYI…..I love brunches though…I act like I don’t want to leave. 🤣🥐🍳🥓🥂🍷🍹

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nice!!

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For me I just be scared haha like once I get to talking ain’t no stopping lmao

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agreed

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lol 😂 me too! I am trying to have a filter but I am either quiet af or talk too f*** much 🙃

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South Side Social is close in the area…???…🤷🏽‍♀️

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I swear once we friends prepared to be sick of me haha endless random conversations on top of TikToks

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I’ll be honest I feel the same way it’s hard I’m now in my season of just letting things be I feel like I put in too much effort more often than not and don’t get returned with the same energy lol

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i love randomness! My girlfriend randomly messaged me yesterday morning, asking if she should start a fight with a neighbor over hangers. 🤣🤣😂 Communal laundry room issues 🧺

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Ok ok so does a Sunday for a meet work for everyone??

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Maybe not this Sunday but next Oct 29th ish??

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let me know what works for you 😉

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Preach!! 🙌🏽
I don’t truly mess with my friends I’ve known for over two decades, because of the reciprocation isn’t there. ITS ABOUT THE ENERGY & EFFORT FOR ME!!

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hahaha same!! The amount of times I want to hang out with any other moms but don’t know what to do with my toddler! (And I consider myself an introvert until I’m comfortable with people). He’s a mama’s boy and very clingy to me even when he’s daddy is off from work! Just waiting for him to get a little older I guess so he can finally be all about daddy and so I can go be free to hang out

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oh man. I got girls. One is just like her dad & the other wants to be my butt shadow!!! 👤

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I unfortunately work on Sundays but if we call do the 1st or 2nd weekend in November then I can request off

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