Anyone else?

My husband and I had sex last night. As he was doing doggy style it felt like he was hitting the baby (I know that's impossible, he was proabably hitting my cervix) it really gave me a pain in my stomach so I told him and he stopped going so deep. That has NEVER happened before with the last pregnancy or this pregnancy. This morning, my stomach has been in constant pain, and I think last night might be why. I'm just confused as to why it hurt so bad. I'm 14 weeks pregnant.

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Is this your third pregnancy- I feel like sex is so uncomfortable now - i totally get what you’re saying - this is my third baby

From my understanding, the increased amount of blood flow makes everything more sensitive, including your cervix. He definitely wasn’t hitting the baby! Your stomach could be in pain for a number of things, including soreness from sex. What I’ve heard of, and it’s worked for me, is to spend more time with foreplay, and start penetration slow at first. If you take your time, your sex organs can prepare properly.

I only got this pain when I had an ovarian cyst. I’m currently 11weeks with another ovarian cyst and in certain positions especially doggy style it’s more painful and kinda make me automatically cry. My OB says that cyst are common in pregnant women.

@Melina this is only my second but I never had this happen before

Doggie has always felt super deep for me and now it does feel even more deeper/uncomfortable…it’s my husbands favorite so I just try to position myself in ways that make it feel better but I do find lately it’s been most comfortable when I’m on top

I def agree with Ericha’s advice to start slow. I’m 15 weeks and I have to use a vibrator just to kind of “wake things up” then we move into foreplay then into gentle penetration which I can gauge so much better before flipping over.

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Oh my God, oh my God I hope this is not true!!!! I’m kind of scared

I’ve been throwing up and taking a shit all night!!! I just hope that it’s not what I think it is

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I just wanted to share my experience with being induced as I wasn’t sure what to expect and thought it may help others.

I opted for the foley balloon which was inserted at 8am Saturday morning, I had to stay in hospital due to hypertension and protein urine however usually you can just go home once this has been done. The insertion of the balloon was not painful, was slightly uncomfortable as there was slight pressure. I actually found having the cervix checked prior to be worse (again not painful at this point just uncomfortable) The balloon had little effect and after having it removed I was still only 1cm. Removal also was pain free and hardly even noticeable.

I then had my first dose of the gel and definitely noticed a difference, I started experiencing period like cramps almost immediately however they were light and manageable. After 6 hours I had another cervix check and although my cervix was soft it was still only 1cm and was only open at the front. I had another dose of the gel and felt an increase in pressure and more intense cramping where I now required pain relief (codeine). After another 6 hours I had another cervix check and I had now dilated to 2-3cm however was still quite difficult to get all the way through so a third gel was recommended which I agreed to.

Almost immediately I noticed the difference and was in considerable pain, I had paracetamol and codeine however the contractions had now become intense and a lot closer together (around 3 minutes apart). After a couple of hours I had my last cervix check and was 4cm and taken down to the Labour ward to have my waters broken and an epidural.

I had been in my room for approx 20minutes when my waters broke by themselves and I was now 10cm and actively pushing…. There was no time for the epidural and my beautiful girl arrived into the world within 2 minutes of pushing.

All in all I would say the cramps/contractions were manageable up until the third gel where it became pretty unbearable however it was for a very short time a gas and air helped take the edge off. The worst part about any of it was actually the later cervix checks where after stimulating the cervix my contractions were at their most painful.

If I had to be induced again I would skip the balloon and opt for the gels immediately as thy had a quicker effect and I would have been out a lot sooner if I had done this to begin with.

One more thing, I’ve never believed when people say “you forget the pain once they’re here” but I can honestly say this is true. It’s been 4 days and I would do it all again in a heartbeat.

Anyone else experiencing this?

Gave birth (vagina) 5 days ago and yesterday morning and this morning getting lot of pain in my right bottom side and lower back