Huge Argument

I understand how you feel. Maybe try and take some space away if you can. Another room, another space in the home. Do some self care if you can, get ready for Tomorrows appointment. Calm mom calm baby💕 I been there and know how all the arguing feels. Try to take it easy because it’s still early.

I advise to leave.

First of all- set aside your fears for your baby. Your baby is happy and safe inside you. 12 month old babies can barely tell the difference between a positive reaction and a negative reaction. Your baby just senses your love. However, you are setting yourself up for bad health and a bad parenting experience. Just because you leave doesn’t mean you cannot come back after you bf has done some work on himself. You and your baby deserve better. This is your first big parenting decision and its a tough one.

Respect yourself and the life you want to give your child enough to leave. It's okay to leave a relationship that is not serving you.

I’m in the exact same boat. Toxic relationship not being able to leave etc. it’s hard I’m here right with you babe. I have no advice but you are not alone

Thank you ladies ❣️

I think you need to tell him that you BOTH need to have your focus be on what’s best for the baby. If he can’t treat you with kindness as you’re growing his child inside of you, then you have the right to decide to protect your new baby until he can shape up. Hugs to you girl. You’re doing great and your baby is just in there loving you and doing just fine.

Mama I lived very similar, I only advise pray to Jesus for peace over him and also you, claim love in prayers, the amount of talks I had with my baby’s daddy and also his own family with him didn’t workout at all, just prayers very sincere prayers !