We are thinking about naming our baby after my father but it’s big shoes to fill and part of me just wants him to have his own name. Any adults with this experience? Whether they were named after a celebrity/ big idea/concept or big person in their family’s lives that everyone has existing connotations with. Like naming someone Patience sets them up to be impatient. Or naming someone after their grandfather gave them big shoes to fill. Or being named after like Mike Tyson in the 90s, or khaleesi.
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Sounds like you have a lot of hesitation about this. Using his name as a middle name might be more appropriate since you want him to have his own name

My grandads name is my sons middle name. He was my favourite person and I'm not asking my son to fill his shoes, it's just my way of honouring him. :)

I’d use it as the middle name so he can have a unique first name

All my children have family middle names and their own unique first name. If you didn’t want to use a middle name you could use a variation of his name or take inspiration from his hobbies or things he likes

I am named after both my dad's parents, my grandmother and grandfather George & Jean, so they combined their names to make Georjeana but Pronunced it like Georgina ❤️

I am named after Catherine from the book withering heights. I’m not sure I’m much like her but I love the book and live that that’s where my name is from.

My name is unique, though I am named after my mother. She moved one letter, I am the only one, seemingly in the world, and I love it. Names are prayers, and I wouldn't have it any other way. My middle name is derived from a beloved great aunt who, I too, lovers dearly, and I wouldn't change that either.