Should I leave my marriage?!:/
My husband got offered a Flight attendant job. He accepted the offer and starts training in another state in a few weeks. I’m not happy about it! He’ll be away from me and the kids for 1 month while training.. once he passes his training, he’ll only be in another state a couple of weeks each month..If I fully trusted him, I would have no issue with him taking this job.
Last year I found out he had an affair.. as hard as it was, I forgave him, but I still haven’t completely healed. He’s been putting a lot of work into our relationship Trying to repair the damage he’s caused, but there’s still a lot more work that needs to be done.
Anyways, I feel like him being in another state will cause him to relapse..I’m thinking about ending the relationship because I don’t want to go through what he put me through before . I told him he hasn’t completely gained back my trust but he still wants to take the job. I don’t know what to do! :/
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No advice to give, but I feel your pain being away from a partner regardless of your history would be a very difficult and a hard test for any relationship.
Hey there, I am so sorry you are going through this. I feel your pain, because I’ve experienced it myself. I was wondering if you could explain more about how he has been “putting in a lot of work” to repair the damage he’s caused. Might help gauge better whether this is worth sticking it out or leaving.
I’m with you girl. Im in a boat similar to yours it suck when there is no trust cuz of what you did
If there is no trust, then I feel like you should move on. I dont think he was even taking you or the kids into consideration by taking this job offer tbh. Flight attendant jobs are great for single individuals or younger people without families but it just doesn’t make since for someone with a family
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