Found out hubby cheated. Don't know what to do or think.

I suspected for awhile that he was cheating. I came across 2 pictures of him in a video chatting with a girl showing him her breast like she was naked or something. When I saw those pics I confronted him and said he was sorry. I don't know if they had sex or not. I just don't know what to do or think right now. We have 2 kids and he wants to work things out.

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Get tested and leave him

He not sorry boo, leave him alone

If he wanted things to work, he wouldn’t cheat. You deserve better.

Leave him. My ex did the same and leaving him alone was for the better. He’s only sorry he got caught. I’m so sorry but you will find someone better

He was shown boobies on computer or he actually cheated on you

you caught him. He didn’t come to you because he felt guilty or wanted to confess because it was eating him up. He lied and hid it. Female intuition isn’t false. If your still feeling left in the dark it’s because there is still information you need that he is withholding.

You can try counseling and it may work but don’t waste your life. Children adapt my have I left early and she gets everything she needs from us both

I'm just finding out he never slept with the girl like I thought. He said he been wanting to tell me but was told by his friend not to say anything to me.

was it like an Only Fans type of thing or was he actually emotionally invested in some type of relationship?

If he was just trying to get off and didn’t care for the girl I wouldn’t leave him.

Men are different from us, some have more urges than others, and I would see what I could do for my husband and his wants.
Definitely try marriage counseling. It’s always the better choice, good luck

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Can someone who has had bad marriage problems before and gotten through it message me? I feel so alone in the situation I'm in and can't talk to my family about it and my unmarried friends are no help. Saying "just leave" is not helpful. If you can relate please comment so I can message you. I just really need either advice or just someone to talk to. Thanks 🩵

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