Urine infection going on 8 weeks!!

I’m really anxious about the fact that I have had a urine infection now for nearly 8 weeks. I had to be on antibiotics weeks before Christmas and my new urine test has shown that I still have it. I’m worried about whether it is harming baby? I don’t have another appointment booked now until Feb to ask anyone 😩

Has anyone else had this? I know we’re more prone to them when pregnant but this feels silly 😣

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If you’re having symptoms still, you need more antibiotics. They need to send it away to be cultured to make sure you’re being given the right antibiotics. If you don’t have symptoms, they’ll usually leave it

Yeah they just keep prescribing me antibiotics but it’s just how long it’s been going on for! I’m worrying about it becoming a kidney infection or harming baby in some way

Not to worry you but the antibiotics that they are giving you are not clearing it, the concern in pregnancy is the infection can irritate the uterus which in hand could potentially put you into early labour (was only talking to my midwife about this last week and she told me about the importance of treating it effectively asap). I agree with Rebecca, your sample needs to be cultured to get the correct antibiotics to kill it off properly, this has been going on way too long. Hope you get sorted soon x

You defo need a sample sending off.
I had an ecoli infection last year and it couldn’t. Properly shift it till me 3rd lot of antibiotics

Hope you're not feeling to poorly with it. I've had three confirmed urine infections in 17 weeks. All growing bugs each time. I do suffer with recurring uti's, though, and have bladder issues.
Ask your GP or midwife to send off your urine so they can see which bug it grows. Only then will it show you what antibiotics will be effective. Taking medication is nerve-wracking but hang in there because the benefits outweigh the risks alot of the time. X

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Family culture difference on money

Sorry this is long, I hope some of you get to the end and give advice!!!

So I’m a very thrifty person, things are tight at the moment, the cost of living crisis and my house is heated by oil so things are extortionate. We aren’t on the bread line but we aren’t flush, hubby might be made redundant so there is some financial pressure.

Sometimes I buy my sons something nicer, on the justification that I can sell it on after (♥️ vinted ♥️). I have also been planning on pretty much breaking even most of the baby things I bought from face book market place, side by crib, baby changing unit, etc.

Hubby and I have different money cultures with our families (he’s Indian, I’m British). I’m my family we don’t mix money, we would help each other out if someone was in trouble and will get each other gifts on special occasions. With hubby’s family money is much more fluid, they will give each other things worth thousands of £ just because.

Hubby’s brother bought him a new laptop and a new Google phone, he’s been very generous to hubby. Hubby hasn’t given the same back because brother is much richer.

Hubby and I mostly share finances. If it’s relevant I’m the higher earner.

Now to the point! My babies are so cute they’ve given hubby’s brother (currently single) baby rabies. He’s asked for our baby stuff when we’re done with it. He’s been so generous to hubby I feel really stingy saying no. But I’d never have bought some of the stuff if I wasn’t going to get a return on it - the thought makes me a bit anxious. If we gave all our baby stuff given the second hand value it still wouldn’t equal what the brother had given hubby.

I thought maybe I could give him some stuff but sell some stuff, but hubby said then his brother will just have to go out and buy that stuff, so I should name my price and ask his brother for the money. That makes me feel very uncomfortable, given how generous the brother has been to hubby.

So what do I do ladies? Give it all and suck it up? Give part of it and sell parts on Vinted/FB, or ask hubbys brother for money for it and be uncomfortable? Or do you see another solution?

No one is being entitled or rude here, just a culture difference I need to navigate.

My relationship is failing I feel so alone.. I need a girlfriend to talk to :(

I'm a sahm and I feel so stuck... anyone going through the same thing? I could really use someone to relate to and talk through this with. Feeling so vulnerable but if I don't I won't be able to pull myself out of this

Going back to work!

Already thinking about this! Told my boss I was pregnant this week at 10 weeks, he was so happy for me. He’s recently became a first time Dad and was showing me pictures of his baby. I told him my plans about going back after 6 months and he looked at me like I was mad, am I!? I absolutely love my job and cannot imagine giving it up, I manage a team and am petrified my position won’t be there if I had a year off. My husband gets 6 months full pay so the plan would be for him to have the last 6 months off and I also made it clear to my boss that I would like to go part time. That way we can hopefully parent together 4/7 days rather than just the weekend! I am such an overthinking! 🤣 but this is what I’m struggling with the most, I’ve worked full time since I was 17 (12 years ago) and the max time I’ve had off in one go is 2 weeks when I got married. I’m sooo excited to be a Mum and we decided now was the right time, which it 100% is! But I feel so on edge about not working! I’m sure once I’m on maternity leave I won’t even think about work! Has anyone else felt the same?

Go to dinner ideas

Looking for recipes you use in your family that are not the traditional lasagna, shepards pie, ect

What are we giving our soon-to-be 3yo for their birthdays?

We have the magnetiles, we have the kinetic sand and play doh, we have the play kitchen…

Literally, is there anything left in the world to buy this spoilt kid? 😅

Baby groups?

Hello there!!
I hope you enjoying the 5month babies 🫠 the cuteness outweighs everything over here.
We live in the area of Croydon & need to start going to baby groups ( I NEED it more than him though) but I am a little bit clueless. Any recommendations?
We are happy to travel a bit too.
Thanks ☺️