Welp.. we’ve made it to 9 days of January without a meltdown

First meltdown of the month - yay!

Returning to work, having NO clothes that look good on me, having me time, spending time with my husband, trying to be a good mum, Keeping the blasted kitchen tidy, emptying the bins, taking things to the tip, doing my hair .. I’m overwhelmed to fuck 😂

I know I’m not alone, but oh my gosh when you’re in the thick of it, it can be so paralysing. I’m currently sitting on the sofa to overwhelmed to move despite the fact he’s napping and I know I’ve got time - but goodness me, I just feel absolutely paralysed and to top it off despite the fact the heating is on full blasted I’m FREEZING!

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in our community

Scan needed at 33 weeks

Hi ladies! I just had a midwife appointment (I am 33+5)..the midwife was different to my usual midwife. She's requested I have a scan within 72 hours as she said baby is measuring a little small, however, she did say that it's likely nothing to worry about and it's probably just her measuring me a bit different to my usual midwife. Has anyone else had this? Am a bit worried although babys heartbeat and movements are completely fine.

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normal or infected?

5 weeks post c section , i went at the beginning of the week as my wound had opened completely different area to what’s leaking. was told it didn’t look infected. anyone know if this is normal coming off it, it’s only a little amount at a time

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Finding out gender

Has anyone found out the gender at a private scan at 14 weeks? And has this been accurate?

I found out at 17 with my first but I know a scan place that offers from 14/15 weeks and I’m impatient 😂🥲

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Hi

Hi guys so I’m 25 weeks today and I haven’t felt the baby kick at all yet at the scans she’s moving constantly that it’s hard to get the right measurements my first pregnancy was cryptic so I just want suggestions from one worried mother

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Induction?

Anyone been induced before? Was it more painful? Better than thought? Worse than thought? Worth it? Thoughts?

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Baby names

My daughter‘s name is valentýna and I’m struggling to find other nice girl and boy names beginning with V I’ve got a few and I’ve got loads that aren’t beginning with V, but I feel like I wanna go for all vs and I also love girl and boys names that match so because my daughter’s name is valentýna I would love to call my son Valentino my husband does not agree 😃

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