Is it just me or does my midwife not tell me anything

I read everyone’s posts on here about things there midwife’s have told them , I feel like mine doesn’t tell me anything she does my check up and that’s it , she’s so lovely but feel like everything I know has been from reading peoples posts on here or on Google

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I feel the same!! Barely anything on my badger notes is filled in 🤣

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I know ! It’s my first time too and people tell me things and I’m like what is that ect and there like hasn’t your midwife told you 😂 umm nope

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everything I've learnt/know is from here or friends giving me advice, my midwife only does my routine check up, everything question I've asked her she tells me to look online for the answers 😅

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I agree it might be a positive sign all is well with your pregnancy, but you should see her as a resource and bring all your questions to her. Mine is full of useful knowledge, and will share it all when appropriate and if I ask her.

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