So my husbands court order doesn’t have anything about traveling so if we wanted to travel out of state bm can say no . He thinks it’s fine . And I think it’s obviously a bad idea to try and plan and book anything without consulting with her first . It would be a waste of time and money.
Secondly , I’m salty because he just wants our family to go which I get . He specifically said he doesn’t want my parents and brother to go . I’m bitter about it because my parents are getting older and want to experience traveling with their granddaughter . The problem is if they try to entertain going anywhere my husband says it’s not fair to SD because she’ll be left out . Mind you it would never be intentional to leave her out but what am I to do when her mom doesn’t want her to travel .