Anti reflux formulas

Does anyone use these and also have a perfect prep machine? Do you still make it using the hot shot method?

Anyone use SMA or Aptamil? I can’t believe SMA is £8.50 a tub and Aptamil is £18. Anyone shed light on using either of these and how they got on? Not sure which one to go for. SMAs website says don’t recommend a perfect prep machine with it but Aptamil doesn’t say anything? Unsure if SMA would also rule out Nuby rapid cool too which is how I make bottles on the go.

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I’m use SMA anti reflux, and I’ve used aptamil anti reflux. Also used the perfect prep machine and can safely say it’s not really the best decision. We found the formula went lumpy and curdled when made with the prep machine.

You only need lukewarm water so I mix cool boiled water and boiled water together and then add the formula.

My LG didn’t get on with aptamil at all! It was super frothy and gave her terrible wind and constipation. SMA is perfect for her, no bubbles, no constipation, no wind. I love it and wish I’d used it from the start.

SMA anti reflux is only recently being sold at £8.50 a tub in Morrisons and on Amazon. Everywhere else it’s £15.75

thanks that’s really helpful! How many oz/ml do you make per bottle and what’s your water ratios?

Do you find the SMA anti reflux works and helps? X

Same as we found SMA much better than the aptimal anti reflux. I don’t use a prep machine though, I just use 3oz boiling water, add the formula & shake hard because it can leave lumps then add another 3oz cold into it and it’s good to go ☺️

I have a flask of boiled water and a bottle of cool boiled water and I just mix together so it’s just a little hot. Usually like 1.5oz cold water and 2.5oz hot water (4oz) and that works well. Once you add the formula the bottle cools right down so I like to make it on the warmer side as my lg gags if too cold x

My little girl struggles with reflux and find the prep machine makes it worse

thank you! What do you store your cool boiled water in and how long does it stay in there? Do you sterilise what it goes in? X

I store it in a spare tommee tippee bottle I have. Usually 12 hours max I’ll keep it in there for and then tip away and refill. I don’t sterilise it no as she doesn’t drink from it and it doesn’t have formula in. I just fill it with boiling water after washing it and then tip that out then refill it x

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Just out of curiosity, why do parents love zipper onesies?

Don’t get me wrong, I tried zipper ones it’s easy to zip in and out when putting it on the first time and taking it out, but I find it difficult when changing diapers especially when baby is asleep.

I prefer those kimono style buttons where it’s easy to button or too down button with crotch snaps.

Is everyone thinking the same or different? Lol

At this point I’m not enjoying motherhood

My 22 month old is horrendous at the moment🫣 biting, hitting, pushing, pulling and shoving not only adults but children he also wants what other children have and will just snatch it away from them.

We repeat ‘nice hands’ ‘be gentle’ ‘let’s share’ etc

But how do I make him understand what he’s doing isn’t very nice? At the end of the day I feel like I’ve just been saying his name all day and nothing else.

What can I do?

This might rattle some people

Ok, this might get a bit long, and a bit bumpy, so get comfy and buckle up.

So about a week or 2 ago, there was a post on here regarding sleepovers. Not letting their child go to them as you can't trust who'll be at the house etc.

Now, given recent incidents in nurseries and schools, plus my own experience back in the 90s, I am more concerned about sending my child to nursery and later school than I am to a friend's house for a sleep over.

The other day a man was jailed for abusing children at the nursery he worked at. A woman has been arrested for sleeping with an underage boy and then getting pregnant by a different underage boy while on bail for the first offence.

Young girls and boys get sexually harassed and bullied when at school, not all of them. But more than you think. And not just by other kids, but by adults who we as parents are trusting to look after our kids.

A sleepover, is a more controlled environment, with only a handful of people coming into contact with your child. A school, a club etc there can be 100s of people coming into contact with your child.

I was targeted at 7 years old by the owner of a prominent private school. Thankfully, I wasn't SA'd. In year 5 of primary school, I started to develop early, I was harassed by the boys and teachers made remarks about how my uniform didn't fit right, always "adjusting it" around my chest and legs.

Years 7-9 of secondary school were hell. But it was all under the guise of "we're just messing around". A teacher twanging my exposed bra strap (none uniform day) is not "messing around".

Boys pinning me down trying to rip open my shirt to see my breasts.

I fear for my daughter. I hope she takes after my father's family, flat chested.

We need to educate all our children, what is acceptable behaviour. And to come to us, as their parents should ANYTHING happen.

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My baby has had a dummy since about 2 weeks old (now 5 months) and over the course of the last month we weaned her off it during the day only for naps and night (which was fine) and then 5 days took it completely away during the day.

The first day no dummy was fine, the second bit rougher. But now it feels impossible she just moans and cries all the time it takes ages for her to go down to sleep (she’s always been an amazing sleeper)

I thought it was meant to get better as time went on not worse. I’m at my wits end I dunno what to do.

Currently typing this as she screams uncontrollably in the car and I cry with her cos I can’t do anything.

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How to help my husband understand why I'd like to breastfeed

My husband is very supportive, but he is also someone who wants to make things as easy and as stress free as possible.

With our first child, I tried to breastfeed, but due to my own medical issues postpartum, baby and I were separated a lot and my milk dried up so quickly. We introduced formula around 2 weeks PP, and I tried pumping as much as I could, but it just lead to nothing. It was heartbreaking. It definitely ruined a lot of those early weeks for me, I was wrecked with guilt and sadness. I cried every day and felt like such a failure.

Now my son is a healthy, happy 2 year old and I eventually came to terms with formula feeding him. He was quite content with the first formula we tried, never had feeding or gas issues etc, so it felt like a much easier option.

Obviously my husband witnessed all of this and now we're expecting our second baby, he sort of assumed we'd just go straight to formula.

I told him pretty early that I'd like to try breastfeeding again, and although I won't be putting so much pressure on myself this time, I've also done more research and I'm more prepared for the hard times that might come up in the early days/weeks, and I'm trying to prepare for any complications.

He's very supportive and says it's totally up to me and hasn't tried to sway me either way, but I do get a feeling the moment things get difficult PP he will automatically be buying formula. And he won't mean it in a bad way, he'll just be trying to make things easier for me and take off the pressure. He won't understand that it's unhelpful.

His thinking is that as long as baby is fed that's all that matters, and I agree mostly! But I also understand how beneficial breastfeeding can be and want to give it all my effort if I'm able!

So I guess I'm asking, are there any good resources I could send him to read? Preferably nothing too long/wordy, but something that explains the benefits and how to best support me during this time too? (Also something preferably from the UK as I know guidance can differ depending on country)