Play time

Any tips on how to keep my 12 week old entertained? We have a play mat that he used to love, but he seems to be getting bored and will cry. I play nursery rhymes, sing with him etc. I'm just not sure if I'm missing anything?

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we like the fish bubble lamp, fibre optic lights and light up maracas and anything colourful & bright!

@Libby he loved the fish bubble lamp at our group yesterday, it's already in daddy's amazon basket 🤣🙊🙊x

it keeps her occupied for hours! especially if she’s on her mat & can watch it!

Mine wasn’t really bothered by his play mat until we starting hanging other bits and bobs over it 😂 seems to be happy in there for much longer now! Also taking him on walks as he loves staring at everything. Following this for nice ideas though!

@Brittany I've just ordered this mat off amazon 😊
Ahh thats lovely 😍 my LO loves watching the TV too! In the mornings he watches paw patrol in his bouncer whilst I wash bottles etc 😊 x

@Kirsty that's my plan to start hanging other bits off his mat too! I've just ordered some bits so I'll pop the links on here 😊
Your LO is adorable 😍x

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can you please put a link or pic of this? Sounds great!

Get some new born baby books they are black and white pictures and babies seem to love baby sensory books!

@Katie Louise I do have one of these and he does love looking at it 😍 so I may get some more. Aldi have them in there at the moment, they are black and white with primary colours in them x

also the library have lots and you can sign baby up from birth! They also do baby groups which the babies love xxx

Try this balloon hack 👌😅 He was like this for 20 min 😃

Oh why didn't I think of this - was his older brothers 7th birthday on Monday so I have a balloon here 😂 xx

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