Partner wake ups

Just a question guys..does your partner wake up in the morning with you and baby? My partner works fifo so works hard, but when home sleeps in till 10amish everyday, even if home for 2 weeks. Would be nice for him to get up with me snd baby at 7 or even offer for me to have a lie in. Wonder if everyone's partner is up with them?

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My partner always wakes up with us, mainly I think because we are loud and he doesn’t really have a choice lol but we do try and give each other a sleep in every other day, he is also FIFO - I would definitely be letting him know that having the baby on your own is hard and you would like a morning to have a sleep in too

Yup, hubby gets up with us every morning. We are both morning people though so that might be different if both of us / one of us wasn't. Although our son is an early riser and even though we're morning people, a lie in past 5.30 on the weekends would be nice 😂

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