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Hey girls, I'm just over 3 months pp of emergency c section I've had 2 proper periods now so I can start my.contraceptiom as I feel ready to have sex, me and my partner have some child free time tomorrow so it's highly likely we will be doing stuff I will start my pill tonight we have already discussed pulling out method (he can't wear condoms) and I know I'm quite fertile right now do you think it's better to wait another couple of weeks for pill to kick in ? I had a traumatic birth and horrendous recovery so I really don't want to get pregnant right now 😩😩

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u might want to waite if u can

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When did you last have your period ? The pill is effective from the first day if it’s taken within 5 days of your period starting. If not it takes up to a week to take effect so would be best to use something else or wait x

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Use a condom

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Only need 48 hours of the pill for it to start working, but as others have suggested, use other forms of birth control if you’re worried

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