Private Maternity care

After some truly horrible experiences with Colchester hospital over the last few years, I am absolutely terrified to give birth there. My situation is higher risk, and I feel like if I trust this birth to Colchester hospital something terrible will happen. I've never left there happy and confident in the care received. I've started to feel like it would be worth just paying for private care. The problem is I can't seem to find the private options in Colchester. Oaks doesn't look like it offers this. Does anyone know what the options are.

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Have a look online at private midwives, you could either hire one for your care and birth or I’m sure they’d be able to direct you to the other private options xxx

I don't have any advice on private but you could look at possibly moving your care to another hospital if that's an option at all. I'm going to be birthing at Broomfield hospital in chelmsford because I don't trust Colchester

You must do what is right for you and what you feel comfortable with so I’m in no way judging that. But if it helps to have a positive story from Colchester. I gave birth there and I couldn’t praise the midwives enough. I had a scary situation and they all went into action and it all worked out amazingly.

I gave birth in Colchester with my first I was induced and tbf never had any problems with staff the delivery scans or anything. My sister gave birth two weeks before me and her experience was very different 🤷🏼‍♀️
This time I’m having twins so chose to go to Broomfield more so because of the amount of appts and childcare (my MIL is 5 mins from the hospital) but again I’ve had friends who had twins 6 years ago and said Broomfield were terrible. I think unfortunately no matter where you go your experience can always be hit and miss which it shouldn’t be but does happen. Just go with what feels right for you, I did actually look at s private midwife but it’s very very pricey and not something I could ever afford, but maybe look at alternative hospitals and women’s experiences there? X

Have you tried looking to see if you could birth in a different hospital ? I had the option of both Colchester and Ipswich due to my location.

Also if you go into labour naturally , I’m sure you wouldn’t get turned away if you went to a hospital of preference. Obviously this is on the assumption you don’t required induction etc x

in our community

Oh my God, oh my God I hope this is not true!!!! I’m kind of scared

I’ve been throwing up and taking a shit all night!!! I just hope that it’s not what I think it is

Small head reported following 20 week scan

Has anyone else had it flagged that their baby is in the bottom 5th percentile for head size?

They said everything was fine whilst we were in the scan and then I got a phone call the next day saying that it’s on the small side and we’re being referred to a paediatric specialist at St George’s. Has anyone else had this and how did things go??

Would you bring 9 week old to a family party of 35+ people?

These are also people who will want to pass the baby around and get a turn to hold him. He just got his 2 month shots two days ago

Exercise 6 weeks after c section

What movement did people start to introduce? I won’t do anything too vigorous until I’ve seen the pelvic physio as I don’t want to compromise anything that may have been extremely weakened through pregnancy! But just wondering what types of classes/movement people started off with?

Induction experience

I just wanted to share my experience with being induced as I wasn’t sure what to expect and thought it may help others.

I opted for the foley balloon which was inserted at 8am Saturday morning, I had to stay in hospital due to hypertension and protein urine however usually you can just go home once this has been done. The insertion of the balloon was not painful, was slightly uncomfortable as there was slight pressure. I actually found having the cervix checked prior to be worse (again not painful at this point just uncomfortable) The balloon had little effect and after having it removed I was still only 1cm. Removal also was pain free and hardly even noticeable.

I then had my first dose of the gel and definitely noticed a difference, I started experiencing period like cramps almost immediately however they were light and manageable. After 6 hours I had another cervix check and although my cervix was soft it was still only 1cm and was only open at the front. I had another dose of the gel and felt an increase in pressure and more intense cramping where I now required pain relief (codeine). After another 6 hours I had another cervix check and I had now dilated to 2-3cm however was still quite difficult to get all the way through so a third gel was recommended which I agreed to.

Almost immediately I noticed the difference and was in considerable pain, I had paracetamol and codeine however the contractions had now become intense and a lot closer together (around 3 minutes apart). After a couple of hours I had my last cervix check and was 4cm and taken down to the Labour ward to have my waters broken and an epidural.

I had been in my room for approx 20minutes when my waters broke by themselves and I was now 10cm and actively pushing…. There was no time for the epidural and my beautiful girl arrived into the world within 2 minutes of pushing.

All in all I would say the cramps/contractions were manageable up until the third gel where it became pretty unbearable however it was for a very short time a gas and air helped take the edge off. The worst part about any of it was actually the later cervix checks where after stimulating the cervix my contractions were at their most painful.

If I had to be induced again I would skip the balloon and opt for the gels immediately as thy had a quicker effect and I would have been out a lot sooner if I had done this to begin with.

One more thing, I’ve never believed when people say “you forget the pain once they’re here” but I can honestly say this is true. It’s been 4 days and I would do it all again in a heartbeat.

Anyone else experiencing this?

Gave birth (vagina) 5 days ago and yesterday morning and this morning getting lot of pain in my right bottom side and lower back