Birthday party

Hi mommas was wondering anyone’s thoughts on this. So I went to a friend of mine daughters 1st birthday party on the invite ( I have no clue where I put it) it said something along the lines of requesting no gifts and if you’d like you can contribute to her education and there was a link to donate she had a 529 account set up for school and you could give whatever amount u want. My husband liked that idea to do for our sons birthday party also because we are so over loaded with clothes and toys in our small space some clothes he couldn’t even get to wear because he grew out so fast wanted to know what’s everyone’s thoughts on it does it sound tacky or rude and how would you even word this on an invite so it doesn’t sound like we’re demanding u only give him money

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in our community

normal or infected?

5 weeks post c section , i went at the beginning of the week as my wound had opened completely different area to what’s leaking. was told it didn’t look infected. anyone know if this is normal coming off it, it’s only a little amount at a time

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Finding out gender

Has anyone found out the gender at a private scan at 14 weeks? And has this been accurate?

I found out at 17 with my first but I know a scan place that offers from 14/15 weeks and I’m impatient 😂🥲

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Induction?

Anyone been induced before? Was it more painful? Better than thought? Worse than thought? Worth it? Thoughts?

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Baby names

My daughter‘s name is valentýna and I’m struggling to find other nice girl and boy names beginning with V I’ve got a few and I’ve got loads that aren’t beginning with V, but I feel like I wanna go for all vs and I also love girl and boys names that match so because my daughter’s name is valentýna I would love to call my son Valentino my husband does not agree 😃

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Induction or c section?

As a last resort, would you rather be induced or have a planned c section?

Really not liking the thought of being induced from people’s experiences I’ve read!

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I am so done with pregnancy !

Everything i do hurt . I sit down / i stand up / i walk / i lie down. I am in pain ! I am tired ! His mouvement hurt down there like electricity chock ! My back is on fire ! If i walk more then 5 minutes i feel like i am going to die ( low ferritine) the acid reflux is crazy . I mean i can’t and don’t wanna do this no more . Only 31 weeks !

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