appreciation help please

hellooooo. how do you guys show your partner you appreciate them without money? i’m not sure i do enough
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My husband thrives on words of affirmation and physical touch. Whenever we sit next to each other, I’m sure to play with his ears or rub his neck. Everyday, I send him a text while he’s at work thanking him for his dedication to his career and all that he does for us. I’m also sure to make his favorite snacks and put them in his lunch box as frequently as I can. If he’s working from home, I’ll sneak up to his office for a little quickie when I suspect he might have a little bit of downtime 😂 🥰

I show my appreciation by sending him texts thanking him for his hard work or when we are home sitting together, I hug him and thank him. Some times I buy him stuff that his been eyeing for a while and couldn't get and yk be like "Hey I got you something" I see the excitement and it makes me happy. We try to teach ourselves that our happiness shouldn't depend on money but the little moments together, even if its just shooting a short text to appreciate them and their whole existence. 💯

I try to make sure to always thank him and praise him for his efforts and he does the same for me. I often make him little things. He is very sentimental and enjoys this. Sometimes I write him little notes about how much I love and appreciate having him in my life and I'll leave them in his lunch or on the bed. We have different schedules so he is always in bed before me. I'm not a touchy person but it's very important to him so I make sure to make efforts to hold his hand or snuggle him when I can. His favorite thing is breakfast so sometimes I surprise him with a big breakfast on his days off.

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