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I don't have a clue how to react on this. Or if I'm overreacting. Hubby has to be by 6 and out the door by 7. This morning, he's complaining of stomach pain and just wallowing in the bed. I walked out and came back to him being highly pissed off because I didn't give him a b.j this morning. Turns into an argument where he decided it was a great idea to start degrading me over it. Then says I've only laid on my back for the last 2 months. It's really sad he can't remember the last time when it wasn't that long ago. This was a pointless argument. And regardless of how he felt, he had no right to degrade me over it. I may not be working right now, but I do have 4 kids and one of them being 3. Emotionally I've been a wreck and he hasn't given 2 fucks about it. Just as long as he's satisfied, nothing else matters. Then he proceeds to tell me to go inside and cry like I usually do.

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I would tell my husband that I'm not sucking his dick if he has stomach pains. You don't need to justify not wanting to do it and he shouldn't degrade you because you said no. I don't know the ins and outs but you need to do what's best for your mental health. Also sometimes with sex it is best to just lay there and enjoy it

Maybe I'm wrong, but the less you expect you, the more you get it...

Mmm. Why you still with him? Joking aside, sex is not something that is due. Nor something that's earned. It's something you both want to do in that moment. For whatever reason you don't want to do it, there shouldn't even be reason to apologise. He absolutely should not degrade you. I've been with my other half for 12 years and never once he has said something to hurt me on purpose, and I would never tell him something to hurt him on purpose. I'm sorry but if this is something that happens often there I would ask myself questions, lots of questions. Like why does he feel the need to abuse you. As you are describing it for me it's a toxic relationship so I would run far far away. Words can hurt as much as fists. Sending you hugs

Thats the crazy part been together for 8 and married almost 2 and this is the first time he has ever acted like this.

I've been married to my husband for 10 years. If he ever acted ungrateful... he can expect nothing from me. He should be grateful.

If that's the first time he acted like this maybe I would talk to him. Explain that you've been very hurt by his behaviour and ask the reason of this. Could it be that something is wrong and he's not telling you? Changes at work? Lost money? If it's the first time in 10 years then I would look for the reason of the change

Because he claims it's been to9 long. Only reason.

My fiance has to be up by 5am out the door by 6am. I love morning sex but if he wants a piece that early do not expect me to do shit at 5am. Especially a bj with morning breath 🤢. I am laying there half asleep and you either take it or leave it. Although he should, he doesn’t care about your satisfaction because you’ve allowed it for so long. I also understand (if it’s true) him saying you just staying on ur back. HE SHOULD NOT OF DEGRADED YOU LIKE THAT. Instead he should say I noticed this or that, is everything okay? What can I do? After being with someone so long we tend to look at sex as a chore and just want it done with. If that’s the case I would try to talk to him and tell him to help more if he wants more. You aren’t superwoman. Tell him to get the kids ready for bed one night while you get yourself ready for some fun.

You should check his YouTube and see if he’s getting into that red pill misogyny shit.

Maybe he should make u feel like doing it like being great full and stuff

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