Woman that's a parent and are married how would you feel if one of your parents said this to you

So my husband lost his job and he been tryna have a job its been 6 months He receiving ei I know it's not us it's everyone battling job right now so yesterday my mother said this to me She struggled to take care of me and my sisters while are dad put her thru single kiss and poverty so she vented and I got upset bc every month she says the same thing so j got pissed and said ENOUGH and said then don't vent to me vent to him Then I said THEN u should kg found a better man then she got pissed off And my mother told me Oh no you need to find a Bettwr man bc he can't even pay his rent and support you guys Then I said he lost his job and were both looking for a job and what do you mean by support at least he stayed by my side and never left me single to struggle with anything like you and she had The Audacity to tell me to find a better man just nc of money the economy is so shut and u wanna Throw ur struggles of life onto me and my husband bc we csnt find a job What would u have done in this situation if someone were to say something like that to u All my mom does is start chaos arguments arguments when. No one is even talking to her were just focusing on my two kids me my husband my mom tries to start a fight over ABSOLUTELY NOTHING you guys in a situation like this what would i have done said and do