Anyone have any tips on making girl friends. I’m in my 20s and it feels like lots of mutual girls in my city have girl groups or know each other. Should I come off super friendly?? Put in decent amount of effort at the start to show interest?? I think I usually come off maybe quiet and more serious, but truthfully I’m very chill and nonjudgmental and silly! It just takes time for me to get comfortable with someone bc I also have trust issues and know girls can be petty/competitive so I definitely have some walls built to protect myself.. idk! any tips are super appreciated. I also understand there are different types of friendships. some are friends just to talk to, some to hang with, some to go out with, some potentially to become best friends who you share a lot more with but i feel those may be hardest to come by. I’m okay with just starter friendships that may not go anywhere, just wanting advice on the secret to friendships with girlies!
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I’m sure you don’t live near me, but you sound fantastic! I think just be yourself, cliche I know, but if it’s meant to be the friendship will fall into place! It will definitely take some effort and an open mind, but if you get the chance go for it! Nothing bad can happen by trying!

Ya im the same would love to make friends but come off shy at first so i have a hard time making friends