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I’m i overthinking it? My partner has never made me feel attractive as he is un affectionate with me. So he made me believe that he is unromantic n that’s who he is. Heheeehehe. We put to bed a beautiful baby girl and I begin to notice how affectionate he is towards her. It’s so cute. Random kisses here n there, even in his sleep n at night he wakes up to peck her.?it’s so cute. But now I am beginning to doubt his whole theory on him being unromantic. I guess he is truly not attracted to me or does not find me worthy of such gestures!!! I was simply his means to having a child🥹
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My partner is the same, except he did show at least some affection sometimes before we had the baby - now it's never and we have spoken about it. it's because we don't have any time due to the baby and we never put this baby down to do affection, just to take care of ourselves make food or laundry or clean, so we need to prioritise affection for us when we put him in the bouncer or high chair. We do all deserve physical emotional support postpartum. And probably i was always initiating it pre baby and now can't if holding or feeding baby when he comes home. I think it's a big factor in PPD
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I can't help you with an answer because my boyfriend makes me feel the exact same. I have so many insecurities and he makes them so much worse. I feel like I deserve better 😞