Family death - input requested

my husband’s grandfather passed away and the funeral was Tuesday. It’s been hard on him. Literally never seen him cry like much at all and I just feel so terrible for him. I would love ideas to help brighten his day. Beyond things I already do like a card, cooking, sex, or a massage. I’m really trying to think bigger or deeper to be meaningful. He could careless if I do anything but just be present but I feel I need to do something for him. Won’t be doing a video memorial since that’s already something that has been done too. Would love your input❤️
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Making a framed photograph of a family photo. A cherished article of clothing made into clothes for a stuffed animal of your child or children. Make his grandfather's favorite dish or going to his favorite restaurant.

I found an old birthday card of my husbands when his mom passed. I got a heart shaped key ring that had “lots of love, mom x” in her hand writing.

When my step daughter’s mom died I purchased a tree through trees for a change. They plant trees in honor of a loved one in areas affected by wildfires. They send you a certificate, and location of where your tree was planted. So we can go for a road trip and visit. This way her mother’s memory will be here long after we are gone. My step daughter is big on the environment so this was something she absolutely cherished.

Etsy has tons of memorial stuff available. Just seeing my dads picture in the house gave me comfort

If he is more of a quality time type person I'd honestly just offer to go on a walk together. Sometimes being outdoors and spending it with the only person you find comfort in can mean a lot. My husband is a walk type of quality time and it can be so refreshing and help relax and clear the mind a bit.

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