Partner going down on me

We personally waited 3 months but I did have an episiotomy as well so was VERY tender down there 😬

My man went down after almost a year post partum. It’s when he felt comfortable 😌

Finding better men who aren't scared, like the fuck do they think their cum tastes like sometimes?😂 My partner went down on me like 3 weeks post partum. I was still spotting sometimes and nervous, I told him, he told me that he wasn't scared of a lil blood and he'd be soft and slow, he said that he wanted to please me after I just gave birth to his kid because he was sooo attracted to me for what I had just done for him. Pregnancy and post partum are extremely sensitive times mentally and physically, he should be caring for you since all he did was cum in you, but you gave everything, every single part of you. He can't please you a bit in return? Like you're telling me he thought you were DISGUSTING when you were pregnant? Thats appalling and I'm sorry 😞

@Mariah love your sentiment and where you’re coming from. But he really is very respectful about the whole thing and didn’t say I was disgusting or anything. I just really did have soooo much discharge I was already self conscious and he was trying to disguise him rinsing out his mouth after but when I asked him he said it’s cause it was a lot even though I showered right before. He wants to go down on me but wants to wait till I feel comfortable. And my self consciousness actually comes from a partner when I was young who just never did oral

Have an open conversation with your partner. If he isn't pushing you to let him go down on you then I am sure he will understand that you wanting to wait is not a big deal.

About 3 to 4 weeks he couldn’t wait no longer 😂

My partner and I haven't had sex for months, since I was like 8 weeks, I'm 26 this Thursday, sometimes i feel like he don't think I'm sexy anymore, and yes I talk to him about it but it's always a laugh or that's not it or I don't want to talk about it.

I’m 8 weeks postpartum and he hasn’t yet bc I was bleeding, stopped very briefly then got the IUD and started bleeding again. He would totally do it and not give a single fuck, but the idea of it makes me uncomfortable. I also dont mind kissing after, but if I’m bleeding I would not want to kiss him until he washed his mouth out and pausing to do that just sounds like a buzz kill. @Jazmin My husband was like that too and when I finally got him to open up, it was because he was scared he was gonna hurt me or the baby and felt a little embarrassed by that. He knew it was okay if my doctor didn’t say not to, but anxiety was getting to him. Maybe it’s the same for your partner?

Try doing it in the shower

The discharge can be alot. I been going thru it, I'm 6 months and it's like I'm leaking discharge 😅