How often do you see your mother in law.
For reference my mother in law likes to come over once a week I have put my foot down and set it at once every 3 weeks. She has an emotionally incestuous and codependent relationship with her son my Husband and is overbearing. I have addressed this with my husband numerous times as well. How frequently do you see your MIL?
i see my fil more than my mil. he'll come by every couple weeks but its usually for a specific reason like dropping something off or helping my husband with a project. Normally if they want to visit we do it over dinner somewhere or they come over on holidays or we go there.