My partner just told me he's only with me because I'm pregnant with his son. Confused & I don't know what to do.... we got into a silly argument before hand.
Sometimes we say the worst things in bad times to hurt someone because normally someone we love.
On the one hand, he may have said it to hurt you after the argument, sort of to have the final say.
On the other hand, it may be absolutely true and for that reason, I'd personally would want to see a couples therapist before taking the next step to either break up or continue the relationship.
It's not healthy for any relationship just to stay together because of a child because the arguments, often in front of the child can be very often, very traumatic and never ending. But if you can find a way to make it work and live each other again, I'd always go for that option first.
Wait for both of you to calm down and then nicely bring up the conversation again. Without blaming or fighting. Just to see where you really stand with each other.
Sometimes we say the worst things in bad times to hurt someone because normally someone we love. On the one hand, he may have said it to hurt you after the argument, sort of to have the final say. On the other hand, it may be absolutely true and for that reason, I'd personally would want to see a couples therapist before taking the next step to either break up or continue the relationship. It's not healthy for any relationship just to stay together because of a child because the arguments, often in front of the child can be very often, very traumatic and never ending. But if you can find a way to make it work and live each other again, I'd always go for that option first. Wait for both of you to calm down and then nicely bring up the conversation again. Without blaming or fighting. Just to see where you really stand with each other.