Plz help

What’s it mean when I’m talking to my boyfriend and he always shuts his eyes or like rolls them? I told him he does this and he raised his voice at me trying to shut me up. Well he does do this. What’s it even mean? No I can’t ask him again cuz he will blow a fuse. Maybe a brain annerysn idk. Yes I know I didn’t spell correctly my bad. Anyways he does differently with everything he does. Like when he’s on his game or social media he doesn’t shut his eyes like that. He does when he’s about to go to bed at night but like during the day. Idk. Now when he talks to his mom he pulls his shirt up or keeps pinching or pulling at his dick. Super fucking weird which I’ve called him out before because it makes me feel weird and uncomfortable. He didn’t believe me until he paid attention and said he didn’t realize that. So idk I stay away from them when they talk now tho. I’m constantly having to wait on this dude. He has a 3 day weekend so I asked him idk 30 mins ago if he wanted to go fishing today. This dude says “I just woke up” lmao. I said today. I didn’t say right this very fucking second. This person has issues that ain’t even mine! No I can’t vent to him either because he just gets mad and don’t let me finish my statement so that’s not even an option. He wants his anger voice to intimidate me to stop. Well I don’t like that either. Smh. How am I starting by asking a question. What the hell.
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Does he close/ roll his eyes every time you guys talk or just sometimes? If it's not all the time, maybe he's really tired, and that's why it's happening. As for the talking to his mom thing... That's strange. I have no idea. For the fishing thing, is he a morning person? My husband is a morning person and likes to talk as soon as I wake up. I hate it, lol. Like you're asking me questions, and I barely know my name at this moment, lol.

@Amiyra it’s just sometimes. I mean if he’s driving he won’t but he does it right in the middle of the day. He just had his bloodwork done so I know his iron levels are fine. I just don’t know. I mean yeah he just woke up like 10 minutes prior however I’ve also been up since 8 am so for me, energy is different. I didn’t say right away I asked today sometime. It’s almost 12:30 pm so I really didn’t think it was that bad of a question. I get it tho, I’m also not a morning person but someone has to get up with the kiddo.

I'm sorry you're going through this. Regardless of his reasons, you guys seem to have different communication styles. Has he always been this way, or is this a recent change?

My brother in law does this. We generally thought its him being rude and made us not bother talking to him. But it's generally just him. He does it most of the time, even when he's fully interested and engaged into the conversation.

My friends hubby blinks his eyes so hard omg and doss some weird movement with his mouth too. It's just him. Idk how or where or when it started. But we've never asked and just keep it moving !!! Idek if he knows it happens!!! However the dick thing is a mystery.

Dismissive. He's tired of hearing you.

I’m not going to be in a relationship with someone that makes me feel uncomfortable by doing weird things or tells me to shut up. He has problems and needs to get help. I stopped reading after the mom part. I couldn’t get past that. 😳

@Rudy Right. It's giving perverted sicko.

And you’re with this person why exactly? They don’t respect you at all.

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