Naps

When is everyone dropping their 2 year olds naps? I’m starting to think mine may be ready but don’t want to do it too early if it’s not needed? X

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My daughter dropped her when she was around 18months, and it's been so good as she sleeps right through the night and untill 7.30am if she naps she will not go to sleep untill 10pm and her bed time is 6.30p. 7pm x

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When they start fighting it consistently, when bedtime gets later and later or when they start waking up early. That’s your first signs really, then give it a go and see if it’s working

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So my son won’t fight his nap and still goes down around 7:30-8pm but there’s been a few times where he’s had to go without a nap and he seems to be okay. Now and then got a little moody but other than that not too bad. Do you ladies think it’s time or should I hold off a little longer x

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If he's not fighting it I would continue. Advice I've read is not to drop nap early. My boy most definitely needs his.

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My son just suddenly stopped napping before he turned 2. But he will go to bed between 6-7pm and sleep 12hrs+ at night xx

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My LB still naps in the afternoon for up to an hour. He needs it otherwise he gets really moody/naughty. He won’t nap in his room though so we have to take him out in the pushchair or car if it’s raining 🤦🏻‍♀️ he goes to bed at 7pm and gets up around 7:30am

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I've heard of some children napping right up until they start school.

Our little man sleeps roughly 8pm-7am. At nursery, he naps for 1.5 hours in the afternoon but, at home, he naps for more like 2.5-3 hours. Yesterday, he napped for almost 4 hours 😲

We'll just let him keep napping for as long as he wants to!

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wow they are good naps.

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😬 aren't they, just!!!

I do feel like it's due after our little man didn't sleep for longer than 20 minutes at night, and didn't nap in the day at all (unless we were out somewhere for lunch!) for his first 8 months of life!!!

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My little girl loves her sleep too much to consider dropping naps yet and will nap anywhere from between 1 hour to 2 and a half hours still, especially at the weekend after 4 busy days at nursery. She pretty much always sleeps through the night 7.30 - 7 ish x

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