Losing your identity

Is anyone else really struggling with this age? There is nothing in this world I love more than my daughter but as a single mum, alls I want is a break and I feel so guilty for it!

We live with my mum but she has an “I’ve raised my kids, this is your issue” attitude so I have very little support. Even things as simple as showering feels impossible right now.

I feel like I’ve lost myself and that I’m just Mummy now. Is/has anyone else been through this phase?

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In need of friends

I truly need friends to talk, vent and chat with whether it be text call or FaceTime I feel so alone even though I have people around me and my partner isn’t really being a partner in this time

Lost friends since being a mum

Good morning! Can anyone relate to this!

My two friends and me have always been close since our early teens. I’m the first to have a baby.

One friend has big house, career and boyfriend

Other out of a long term relationship and being single having fun etc

Before baby we would all hang at my
Apartment, chat eat and just have
Fun.

Now I don’t even get a text to ask how my baby is, how I am. I really thought they would be awesome aunties. But honestly they don’t care.

They meet up a lot to do cool things, which I can’t be upset about as I can’t as I have my baby.

I don’t know I feel sad about it.

Am I over reacting?

Mom/bestie/hg

Looking for mommy friends ! South Jersey areas (Philly too)

Mom of two soon to be wife. Pisces ♓️ True crime junkie and Harry Potter fan! I love all music country /rap/r&b and inconsistent in the gym 😂

Can’t see waves just message me and be yourself!

Work + baby?

Hi everyone I’m a struggling mom needing to go back to work but trying to avoid sending my baby to daycare I’m desperately trying to find work I can do with my baby as I won’t have any one I trust to babysit. If anyone knows anything please reach out. I just want my baby to be safe but living in this economy with one income is just impossible. Please fellow moms im begging for anything!

Advice

Ok so I had this friend and she would always talk about how it was so embarrassing to post your face on tinder or any kind of dating/friendship platform because it makes you look desperate. This has stuck with me soo much over the years, I always post anonymously. I really want a friend just 1 friend that I can go out n do stuff with and we just click but I refuse to post my face on any friendship platform, also because I might see someone I know and I literally HATE the idea of that. I feel so stuck, because I’m not the type of person to go out a lot I go to work and come home and when I do go out to parks and stuff there’s literally never any moms that try to strike up conversation. I really wanna get on bumble bff to try it out but it makes it to where you have to post your face. PLEASEEE any advice would help. I get bumble bff go through the people and then I delete it within like 5 minutes because I see someone I know.

New friend?

First time mommy, 21 years old, 7 weeks pregnant… i want a long distance mommy friend💙 nov2026 babies