Size 16 is big? I'm bigger than you sweet pea 🙂
I slightly know how you feel, feeling unloved and unwanted is hard. I am also a size 16 and it seems like what ever I do I cannot shift the weight off my belly, but also because of feeling low my main comfort is food and I enter the cycle. Please try to love the person you see in the mirror, if you can do something that makes you happy, if it is playing music and dancing or a bit of retail therapy or getting nails done or reading or going for a walk etc. It's not an easy journey but when you start liking yourself you won't have to depend on someone else to show you love. The small steps each day will bring big results. I am giving myself the same advice. I hope this helps.
Look after yourself and do it for YOU, love yourself and that will help you lose weight too, if that’s what you want. Keep positive and raise your confidence: you are WORTHY, and you deserve the best, to be loved and wanted 🫶
Sorry to hear your going through this. I’m sure you are beautiful xx