Tired of the criticism

Im tired of the criticism of my family i just cant take it anymore. The baby is too much with me, i dont go out of the house a lot, he don’t socialise much, i should stop breasfeeding, etc. I just want to scream IM DOING MY F****** BEST! Most of the day im just so freaking tired i just want to stay in bed all day. But i get up for my baby, play with him, feed him, cleaning the house, cooking. But nobody sees that. I feel like im the worse mom. Its like they forgot how hard it is to have a baby. They compare me with my sister in law all the time. But her and I are two different person with two different personality… Well, I guess i just needed to vent. I don’t know how to deal with this anymore…
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I completely understand how you feel! They don't remember what we do..but always what we DONT do. No wonder mothers are so stressed. I'm at a point in motherhood where if you aren't good for my mental space, then I will just stop talking with you. I don't have enough time or energy to allow other people to ruin my mental health.

Breast feed as long as you want too! For the first year it should be #1 source of nourishment for your child. And 3 years is the average age to breastfeed for. Do what is best for you and baby. Their opinions do not matter.

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Just do what feels right for you and tell them that you can’t take their criticism and comparison . I am the worst at that as I tend do say hurtful things back but that actually worked for me lol

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