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He's mentioned abortions before so I know that wasn't a mistake!! He's getting the blame for his own mess, too right!!!
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I think you should leave because he doesn’t want the baby and you do so the relationship is not gonna work out because he doesn’t want the baby

abortion or adoption, he's saying he doesn't want to even fight for the kid. I'd say leave him, he's not going to change, even for his own blood.

Yeah I agree with the above. Leave him. If he doesn’t want the baby what use will he be when the baby is here? He’ll do absolutely nothing to help you while you’re healing, he won’t show enough affection towards the baby. It’s just not worth being with someone like that

Getting the blame from who?

Leave him, he obviously doesn't want the kid. Either adoption or abortion, it's the same end game - no kid. If you want the baby, you need to leave him,because he's made clear he doesn't.

Hey katie , hope your well. Oh no is he still being a dick? whats happened now hun. Hope ur ok xxx

Leave him alone. Do you. Do what’s right for you and the baby.

Sounds like a loser dad. Just leave, lots of amazing men and women out there who love kiddos 🥰

What does he mean by he’s getting the blame? Like someone has already said if you want the baby leave him, he’s made his feelings quite clear

Definitely walk away. That’s not a typo. But the only thing I can say is if you have the baby don’t expect squat from him. Those kind are vindictive and because you have a child that’s his he will feel like he has some type of control. So if you do, leave and go off grid with your life. Block on everything, friends and family block him and have no contact with him too

This makes me so sad

All I’m saying is what if this was the other way around?

@Holly I'd say it's the same answer. If one of you clearly doesn't want that child, you need to walk away, as sad as that is. For men it's a lot more difficult, because apparently the dad's have no right to choose on this (which, honestly, I don't agree with at all, I do think abortion needs to be a couple decision, not just ours even if we're the ones that go through pregnancy, because that's their kid too), but the bottom line is that I wouldn't want any of them hating the kid. If they're this open and honest about how they feel about that child, do you really want to parent with that person? And again, the other way around is the same, as badly as you want that child, if the mother is hell bent in aborting them, would you really want them to go through it and then have a kid they never wanted? It's a sad and difficult situation both sides I think 🥺

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