Break up

Hi natalie , im so sorry to hear this. Hope your ok. If you dont mind me asking why did yöus break up? Bless ya 7 years is a long time. Message me anytime if u want to chat xxx

Hi Natalie, you don't no me but I wanted to say I'm so sorry :( if you need someone to talk to feel free to message me ❤️ I live in colchester so if you need a friend I'm happy to be a friend xxx

Messaged my brother's mate (nothing like that) he saw kicked off made out it was something it definitely was not and left I'm heartbroken and don't know what to do with myself xxx

So hes left because u was texting yöur brothers mate? if hes been with you for 7 years an you wasnt up to anything he should trust you that u wasnt up to anything? Have you tryed talking to him? Xx

Yeah, my life revolved around him everything I did went dressed as was always him in mind I literally gave him my phone to look at the messages as there was nothing to hide he's blocked me on everything including my number I can't get hold of him even if there was an emergency with our kids xx

Oh bless ya im sorry to hear this has happened. I dont really know what to say apart from what a dick.. blocking you.. do u kno where hes gone? Yeh thats not good with not getting hold of him if anything happens with the kids .. touchwood nothing happens.. leaving like that is silly , he may come back once hes cooled down maybe? Has he got a key? Im takin it you both lived together? I kno its easy said then done but try keep cool infront of the kids as kids pick up on things an not good for there health, 😘 hope ul be ok xxx

Sorry to hear that - sounds like a very dramatic reason to just up and leave without hearing you out? Especially as you’ve got children and have been together for 7 years.. to me, now this is just my opinion (so doesn’t mean I’m right at all), but it seems like he could be using this as a way out as it appeared to be an easy opportunity, or he’s hiding something from you and this is his reaction? I know from experience when people have affairs they often look for blame in the other person. And if your conversations with your brothers friend were harmless like you’re suggesting, I really can’t understand why he would up, leave, and throw away 7 years, 2 children over something so… juvenile 😫 Just know if it doesn’t work out, there is a light at the end of the tunnel which you may not see how, but you will be okay. Take as much time as you need to grieve x

One of two things; he is seeing someone else and has been looking for a way out as he wasn’t man enough to just end things properly and would rather the blame is on you. OR He is going through a mid-life situation that is completely not about you but because you are the closest person to him he has chosen to take it out on you. He doesn’t know how to manage his emotions and rather than figure it out he will rather avoid dealing with it. Either way it’s not what you said or did so stop apologising or crying. Just focus your energy on your kids. 7 years is not 70! I say this from someone who was with someone that long and things didn’t work out and now I’m so glad they didn’t because it unlocked better things. Crying is good as it helps you release bottled up emotions but don’t dwell too much, he may either come to his senses and be better or be worse off but either way you have your own life to live regardless of his behaviour and you got to show up for your kids as they need mama❤️@Natalie