Selfish partners?

Has anyone else got a selfish partner/babydad, my other half only ever thinks about himself, we don’t see each other during the week as he works, we now live separately, we used to live together, I moved in with him during my 3rd trimester and then got my own place less than 2 months ago, tbf it doesn’t feel any different living with or without him, so basically he comes to mine on a Friday and goes home on a Sunday, but when he’s at mine he spends most of his time in my kitchen drinking smoking and watching football on his phone, he’ll spend about 20 minutes with the baby and then disappear back into the kitchen for god knows how long, all throughout the day. last night he really took the peepee, he had already had 10 cans and asked if it was alright to pop to the shop and get more (so he could take my key to let himself back in) I said no you’re not having anymore as I don’t want drinking around little one (partner grew up with a drinking family especially drinking parents but I’ve said I don’t want it around my little one as that’s not how I grew up) so anyway when I said no he got into a shitty mood and hid in my kitchen, eventually he comes out and said not being funny but I’m going to the shop to get more, if I wanna drink I will, this peeed me right off! He doesn’t contribute towards our little one, he buys the odd bits of food for when he’s at mine as he eats all the time and I’ve said I can’t afford it, so all his money he wastes on drinking smoking and gambling. He doesn’t tidy up after himself. His dirty washing all over the floor, leaves mess on the kitchen sides/dirty washing in the sink, ect just soo frustrated and at the end of my tether, sorry most needed to rant big time. But yeah question is, does anyone else have a selfish partner?