Am I weird for being upet?( BD is struggling)

So my BD is an alcoholic. He had a seizure while he was with Me( at my house) he would watch the kid while I worked nights but when I took the kids off to school I came back he was lying in a pool of his own blood when I opened the door... he was admitted to the hospital and it took him a few days to get out. This ws in March.. well now he had another again but while at work ...it was a few days I heard from him .. we aren't together for this reason but here I am crying bc that's still my daughter's dad u know? Just shows me he's truly struggling.

Show your support

I just don't want him to die.

talk to him about rehab and maybe get some resources from the hospital

No. I think it’s very kind of you to show care and compassion. Unfortunately though your baby daddy is the only one who can ultimately decide to get help. So please don’t feel like it’s your responsibility.

oh baby girl 😭😭😭 this is so so so hard. my ex has been off the rails for the last 4 years and I’m just waiting any day now to hear his name on the news. it’s okay to be sad because addiction is a cruel disease. all i know with addiction is that you can’t help them if they’re unwilling to help themselves. just know that he’s suffering and he can use love. unconditional love. now this doesn’t mean get back together with him or giving him a drink everytime he tries to stop and is saying he’s in pain or giving him money to support his drinking. It means strong boundaries, reassurance of his own strength to quit, and guaranteed support for when he’s ready to make a change. Best of luck 💕

@luu🤎 I am gonna get him some resources.

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