Venting

I'm not sure if I like my husband anymore or it's the fact that he just doesn't do anything for our marriage. He is not the romantic type, no dates. Before we got married and had our child , we use to live in two different states and we use to go out on dates once a week but now we do nothing. I am a SAHM. I can't go out to work because of my husband's schedule he complains all the time about getting a point and write up if he's not able to go in to work when they mandate him to. So we agree that when our son starts school I could work during the days. Since I'm making the sacrifice for the family I was hoping he would at least consider it and give me spending money when he gets pay or at least once a month but he doesn't give me anything. He doesn't take me out on dates. If I don't say I'm not cooking today I need you to buy some food out he doesn't think I need a break from cooking. It's depressing to live this way. I am not happy in my marriage I expect a little effort from my husband. I have spoken to him about this before and he promised there would be changes and nothing. If I let him he works everyday. I've been having dreams at nights of men having crush on me and me crushing on them too but I guess this is a result of me not being satisfied in my marriage. This doesn't happen in real life only in my dreams. I'm just tired of talking and no effort from him.