Feeling defeated

First time mom and feel like I have not been enjoying pregnancy, it started with my herniating a disc in my back and I feel like I’ve had every symptom under the sun. Yesterday, I just found out I failed my 3 hour glucose test and have to monitor blood sugar levels. I know that it will be worth it in the end but I am feeling very discouraged right now with how hard the journey has felt.

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People do no normalize enough that pregnancy just sucks sometimes. It’s physically, mentally, and emotionally taxing. Your feelings are valid some days will be better than others💓

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I love the Chardonnay said this and I agree. I have been nauseous the entire time and have been hospitalized for various reasons. I want to like it and I know it will be worth it but it is so exhausting to constantly feel sick

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I feel you. I got my test results back from the 3 hour last Thursday and I have my follow up this Friday. It's been really hard trying to accept it and figure out how to manage my sugars, but you got this.

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I completely understand! I have hg and it’s VERY hard for me to enjoy day to day tasks. I’m either sick or about to faint

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