FRIEND SEARCH🧚🏻‍♀️

Hi alllll! I really want to make some more friends so I’m shooting my shot🫡 I’m desperate!!

My hubby & I are 23 & 24 and we have 3 kiddos ages 1(Asher) 3 (Kennedy) & 4 (Paisley)So we have been busy 🤪😂

We want more friends to have game nights with, & to hang out with!! Also it’s important to us for our kids to have friends to grow up with 🩷❤️

I struggle with anxiety & family estrangement so building our own village matters to me.

We are in the west valley!! 🧚🏻‍♀️

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Hi, I only have my 8 month old boy right now but I’m here🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️ I have a husband too. We’re in the west valley in phx

Me and my husband just recently moved here with our 15 month old son (Nolan) and had our daughter out here 4/22. I'm desperate for friends too but I'm not sure if we are in the west valley or not or anything but just message me if you want to talk

hiiiiii I don’t live in phx but I’m pretty close in Flagstaff! If you guys are interested in outdoor activities like fishing / hunting / camping and take any trips near by maybe we can hang out!!! We also travel to phx like at least once a month so it’d be cool to have some friends to hang out with when there! Or if you’d like a “long distance” friendship I’m also all for it 🤣 we have a 3 year old daughter ily! We also also both 25 ☺️

I’m in West Phoenix! I’m 30 (turning 31), my husband is 32. We have a 15 month old girl 🥰 We love game nights, movies and spending time with friends. Would love to make in person mom friends 😊

I’m so jealous of you all. Living in Arizona. That’s my dream place to live 🥲🥲

everyone is a hater because of the weather but I’m a desert rat!! 🌵🏜️

I’d love to be friends!! I have literally zero friends with kids and I want my son to have other kids to play with. Getting to socialize myself is a big plus too.

My husband and I are 25 and 26. We only have one little one so far but he is the same age as your youngest! We’re also located in the west valley so it would be perfect for playdates and game nights.

Heyy will be moving to az soon! Looking for friends!

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So I saw a post on another platform where someone was wondering why anyone would buy natural diamonds anymore since they have lab dimonds now and I commented

"I told my husband I want dinosaur poop diamonds not dog poop dimonds. lab dimonds could be made from anything natural dimonds are made from life on our planet billions of years ago and that to me makes them beautiful.
but there are businesses where you can send ashes of your loved ones and they will make you dimonds out of there ashes so I will be doing that with my 1st dog when he passes. my husband and I have also already decided that when we die he is going to be turned into dimonds and made into bracelets and im going to be turned into necklaces for our children. so they can always hold us close to them rather than just sitting in a jar or in the ground. might as well speed up the process. 😋
In my opinion the dimonds that you are able to choose what they are made out of are more special and valuable rather than dimonds that are most likely made of trash or rotting food."

What are your thoughts and preferences?

Vitamin D

Are you all giving vitamin D for EBF babies? My little boy is 2 months old and only now I started giving it to him but I feel guilty as I was told to start at 1 month

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I started this avocado tree from a seed the week my oldest was due with the idea of gifting it to him as a birthday gift for his 18th birthday. So when he’s old enough to move out he has a mature tree that hopefully can fruit.

I’ve had it in a bottle with water and fish tank water as fertilizer from the beginning and it’s still growing new length, branches, and leaves every year.

I cannot wait to give it to him when he’s older but I’m so attached to it I’ll be sad to see it go 😂

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I only have a few friends who have known me a few years before i became a mum and i feel like they will never understand me until they become mums. They have their own lives where they have fun, spend time with friends, go dinners, museums etc and i’m never considering or included in any of these. They will come visit us and they’ll barely make conversations with me anymore. I feel like im completely invisible as a person and im now only seen as my baby’s mum. Which of course i am and i love it that im her mum but theres also a person behind that title that is being forgotten and i dont know how to feel about it.

My closest friend has been ignoring me, replying late to my messages and its just bringing up so much resentment. She is a busy person but im also a person who has feelings and again i feel like im not being thought of.

Can anyone offer any advice or tell me about your similar experiences and what happened to your friendships in the end? I really dont want to lose my friends as i always hold them dear and near to my heart but it’s upsetting me more and more over time…

Relationships

What should you do almost 3 yrs in a relationship. And have a almost 4 month old baby together we are not happy anymore with each other. I ask him why stay he said he hope things work out. But it hurts me more. I dont want to seems im staying for our son. I just dont know if I can do this anymore.