Hi ladies (TRIGGER WARNING)

I had a missed miscarriage & I had a major haemorrhage at home and was rushed to hospital where thankfully I the bleeding finally stopped
But I had to have a vacuum procedure to get rid of the pregnancy tissue and also the pregnancy tissue got infected and I’m also on antibiotics

Feel so deflated , overwhelmed and needed a safe place to speak
How do I heal 😔 I went through all of this and didn’t even come home with my child

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I had a missed miscarriage and an MVA too before I had my little boy. It was traumatic for me at the time and for a long time afterward. Let yourself feel your feelings and I hope you have someone you can express yourself with.

Things do get better, but I know you won’t feel like that right now. Lean on your support system. ❤️

I’ve had miscarriages before aswell but I have never felt this bad

I feel guilt aswell because I was in 2 minds about the pregnancy
But I knew deep down I wanted to keep the baby
It’s sooooo hard coming to terms with it
I don’t have much of a support system
It’s just me and my little kids

I’m so sorry to hear this
I’m traumatised once again !
I had placenta previa with one of my pregnancies aswell and haemorrhaged with that
And now haemorrhaging with this miscarriage aswell and then dealing both miscarriage and the haemorrhage is exhausting

I keep thinking I’m going to haemorrhage again 😔

Then the trauma of losing the baby and I keep thinking I went through all of this and lost the baby

So hard

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