Miedo al parto prematuro

Hola amigas, necesito desahogarme porque me siento apachurrada :( resulta que llevo todo el embarazo con infecciones recurrentes y con antibióticos, así que mi materno me sugirió hacerme un cultivo de una bacteria especial que no se detecta a menos que la busquen, y ahí salió el origen, se llama ureaplasma y dice que a veces esa bacteria al no dar síntomas graves puede causar acortamiento del cervix o ruptura de membranas. Ya inicié antibiótico y recién me hicieron el tamizaje del segundo trimestre (actualmente tengo 21.3 semanas) afortunadamente todo está bien, mi cervix mide 30.1 mm, así que me salió bajo riesgo a parto prematuro, peero, la cuestión es que yo empecé el embarazo con un cervix de 4 cm, es decir, en lo que encontraban el origen el problema y en 21 semanas se acortó 1 cm, la dra me dijo que aún así estoy dentro del tamaño normal, que lo peligroso es que sea inferior a 25 mm, y que en dado caso de que se acortará iniciaríamos progesterona y reposo. La cuestión es que soy una persona con ansiedad, y ahora no me sale ese miedo de la cabeza ☹️ alguna de ustedes tuvo una experiencia similar? Que consejos podrían darme? Gracias chicas

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Me pasó algo bastante parecido, tuve muchas infecciones durante el embarazo pero no me realizaron ese cultivo.
A las 16 semanas tuve mi segunda amenaza de aborto y me dieron poca esperanza, estuve con progesterona y reposo absoluto por dos meses, luego me dijeron que el peligro había pasado y aunque seguí con algunos cuidados tuve cesárea de emergencia a las 29.5 semanas. Entiendo la parte de la ansiedad, en mi adolescencia fui diagnosticada con depresión crónica y ansiedad así que la pase demasiado mal durante el embarazo pensando en qué podría pasar, afortunadamente mi bebé está por cumplir un año en unos días, mi recomendación es que mantengas los cuidados que consideres necesarios, sé que es difícil conservar la calma en momentos así, yo misma estuve en el fondo de la desesperación pero recuerda tu fuerza, aférrate a aquello que te brinde calma.
Recuerda consultar con tu médico la más mínima duda, aunque parezca insignificante.
Te mando mis mejores deseos.✨

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Tuve una condición que se llama HELPP SYNDROME. Tuve una cesárea de emergencia a las 30 +5 semanas.
No te preocupes. Tenga fe que todo va a salir bien.

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Me pasó lo mismo. NO HAGAS FUERZA, desde ahora. No camines mucho. Cuidate

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Family culture difference on money

Sorry this is long, I hope some of you get to the end and give advice!!!

So I’m a very thrifty person, things are tight at the moment, the cost of living crisis and my house is heated by oil so things are extortionate. We aren’t on the bread line but we aren’t flush, hubby might be made redundant so there is some financial pressure.

Sometimes I buy my sons something nicer, on the justification that I can sell it on after (♥️ vinted ♥️). I have also been planning on pretty much breaking even most of the baby things I bought from face book market place, side by crib, baby changing unit, etc.

Hubby and I have different money cultures with our families (he’s Indian, I’m British). I’m my family we don’t mix money, we would help each other out if someone was in trouble and will get each other gifts on special occasions. With hubby’s family money is much more fluid, they will give each other things worth thousands of £ just because.

Hubby’s brother bought him a new laptop and a new Google phone, he’s been very generous to hubby. Hubby hasn’t given the same back because brother is much richer.

Hubby and I mostly share finances. If it’s relevant I’m the higher earner.

Now to the point! My babies are so cute they’ve given hubby’s brother (currently single) baby rabies. He’s asked for our baby stuff when we’re done with it. He’s been so generous to hubby I feel really stingy saying no. But I’d never have bought some of the stuff if I wasn’t going to get a return on it - the thought makes me a bit anxious. If we gave all our baby stuff given the second hand value it still wouldn’t equal what the brother had given hubby.


I thought maybe I could give him some stuff but sell some stuff, but hubby said then his brother will just have to go out and buy that stuff, so I should name my price and ask his brother for the money. That makes me feel very uncomfortable, given how generous the brother has been to hubby.

So what do I do ladies? Give it all and suck it up? Give part of it and sell parts on Vinted/FB, or ask hubbys brother for money for it and be uncomfortable? Or do you see another solution?

No one is being entitled or rude here, just a culture difference I need to navigate.

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