Found condom in OH wallet

I was looking through, oh wallet, and found a condom. I was looking for money, but something led me to that bit.
It looks open and feels sick.

I got my two boys here and am struggling to be calm at the moment.

I don't know if I can face him coming in later.

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What’s the date on the condom?

Would you be able to go through his phone?

Has he given you any inkling that he’s been cheating?

An open and used condom wouldn't be in his wallet. Have you two used condoms? It could just be old and torn accidentally

@Keisha I have my own. That isn't the point his intentions behind carrying one show he is going to use it one day.
So I might go carrying condoms in purse now. Let's see his reaction.
Also, he can stay do my home up and then goodbye. At least he owes me now after everything I done for him

I have a random condom in my work desk for the simple fact a drink I ordered out with my colleagues came with it (it was a sex in the beach drink and SD restaurants are extra with the themes and gimmicks). I have no intention of having sex with anyone at work or anywhere near my office. Just never discarded it. I say that to say, don’t make assumptions. Discuss it. Having something doesn’t necessarily mean it’s some nefarious intention.

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