When it comes to self-care, I... πŸ’†β€β™€οΈ

A. Make it a non-negotiable priority
B. Fit it in when I can
C. Forget it exists
D. What's self-care?

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I go for an hour long walk alone every day when my husband gets home from work, I also get my nails done every 4 weeks and my hair done every 8 week. I make the appointments and tell my husband when they are, and sometimes I just have a few hours to myself on the weekend because I need it.

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It’s nonnegotiable for me. I refuse to lose myself in just being a mother. My self care days help me keep my identity

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Make it priority I do nail shop appointments, read often take a boot camp class weekly and I do hikes often and monthly spa daysπŸ₯°πŸ’•πŸ’•

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Non negotiable.

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