Cold cut?

I am currently supposed to 8weeks pregnant with twins but all I have is gestational sacs with no embryos in either sac and both have stopped growing 2 weeks ago.
My doctor has prepared me to miscarry, this is my second miscarriage (last one being 13wks).
I am depressed and still feeling morning sickness and cravings as my body hasn't caught up to the fact there is no babies. But I am craving a turkey sandwich. Would you ladies eat one or no?

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In this case I probably would. If you think there's still a chance, maybe heat it up but if it would being you comfort, eat it. So sorry you're going through thisbstress

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thank you. At this point I don't believe that there is any chance. The sacs have stopped growing in size and there no is no embryo, yolk sacs not even a fetal pole.

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I'm so sorry šŸ’• I hope your turn is soonšŸ™

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Enjoy the crap put of that sandwich!

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I’ve had this twice both was just over 8 weeks. It really sucks. I bled on the 2nd of jan and I’m having my first period since and I’m feeling it this week. I’m sorry for your loss if that’s what happens for you. But I hope it goes well for you! If you want to talk my inbox is open xx

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thank you I appreciate your support. I am major in my feels and been not wanting to eat anything but this is the first thing that actually sounded good.
I just feel shame eating it even though I know there is not much hope at all.

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thank you Courtney. I appreciate you offering and sharing your story. I am also concerned about how long I will bleed once it starts, we want to try again but I am nervous of trying after a miscarriage.

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Your welcome! I bled for 10 days with both of mine. The first day I had to sit on the toilet for about 2/3 hours basically because the bleeding so excessive. You’ll pass quite large pieces of tissue too. It’ll seem a lot but that’s the main bit of it, then it’ll be like a period for the rest of the time you’re bleeding for.
It’s hard, but you’ll be okay. If you’re worried at any point ring 111 they can be helpful.
I make sure I had a period in between so you can date better if you do get pregnant again. I’m currently on my 1st period after my mmc and it’s been a shit week. But I’ve decided I want to try again this month.
I had a period between last time and got pregnant in the 2nd month so hopefully I can get pregnant again. But if not I’ll have a few months break I think. Look after yourself xxx

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