Moms boyfriend of 4 years kissing son on the lips

Is it her boyfriend? If so, he shouldn't be anymore. She's already made it clear she doesn't want him to do that. He did it again and she witnessed it. Who knows what he's doing when she's not there to witness. She needs to run, and quickly!
This is a HUGE red flag!!!! HE RAN WHEN CONFRONTED! He knows he shouldn't be doing it!!
If it's someone else's boyfriend, she shouldn't bring her child around him anymore and make it known what he's doing. Period.

I don’t know anyone else’s situation but me personally I would be telling my mother that my child will no longer be seeing her until she has a conversation with her boyfriend about respecting my boundaries and if she doesn’t wanna have that conversation with her boyfriend, then she can come over to my house where they will be supervised.

I’d not be around that person again. Especially because he ran instead of being like oh my god I’m so sorry I completely forgot (still not cool but less creepy)

Nope, need for convo. Break up. I will file a complaint with the police and make him stay away from my kids. I'm not taking chances

they tried talking and he’s doing it anyway - I agree time for talk is done.

Him running off makes him hella more weird. Cause why is he trying to be sneaky about kissing a child innocently? I wouldn’t ever let him around my child again supervised or not that’s an immediate NC

I’d also run a background check to see if he has a history of being a pedo cause that’s what it’s giving

Sound like my biological father ( he's currently in prison now for r*** of a minor it started out with kisses he said was no big deal)

I should add the boy is 8 years. Old

If you already talked to your mom and he is still doing it - i would allow supervised visits with grandma AT your house only. He is not to be on premises and unfortunately kiddo shouldn't go to Grandma's anymore alone if they do already. Too many weirdos and f that. Absolutely should not take chances. If your mom is upset with the decision you'll just have to tell her that's how it's going to be, and if you have mom guilt don't! You would be doing the absolute best for your kid ❤️

This is so very weird. I don’t even know where to start but she needs to keep her son away from that man 100%.

🚨 police 👮 🚨 100% 🚨

If that was me, he’d be out of this world 🌎

That is called grooming, mom needs to sit with son and ask some tough questions and remind her child whatever he says, he will not get in trouble and she just wants to know what’s going on. Here are questions, why do you kiss people? What’s the difference from a kiss on the cheek or lips or body? Who is allowed to kiss you? Why are they allowed to kiss you? Does it make you feel uncomfortable when asked to kiss? Why yes or why no? When kissing someone, does the 8yr old initiate for the kiss or does the adult? Is there any other touching of the body? If yes with what and where? Then ask who? Tell mom to stay calm and if not sure she can ask these questions, maybe take him to therapy and make a neutral person who can control their tone and leave out their emotions maybe would be a better option.

She needs to leave him or you need to not let him around your son anymore

So confusion, mom of childs bf or Grandma's bf?

Cause gm bf, he outta here. Gram can come over BY HERSELF.

But if it's Mom's bf and she ain't break up with him yet, why doesn't she love her child? One time, talk, 2 times, you're actively trying to sexually assault, and ARE, my child.

@Elizabeth Send him away and make sure he is no where close to your children. Let everyone who knew you together know this so your children are safe and protected. It's hard to find a man who will love and protect your children like theirs. They exist but very, very few, so until then, you have to be super protective and on the guide. Don't be to scare you but being realistic and speaking out of experience.