Cheater

Yes & he cheated again & again & each time more carelessly & then began to blame me for his cheating

Did you stay or leave?

I stayed but I left almost 2 years ago

Once a cheater always a cheater

Do you think you are fully over it? Wondering how long it will take me. Do you have any regrets?

Honey it's really not worth staying with him if it happened more than once I can forgive one time but after that it's hard I went through that with my baby daddy and it just kept getting worse, now me I did get revenge but in the end I just felt low I was going though like 17/18 and it just wasn't worth it it gave me trauma that I took into my next (current) relationship and I always expect him to do the same just leave before it damages you too much

I’m working through it , but tbh I don’t think it’s gone work long term . I have started my escape plan so once I’m fully out of it, I can leave . Maybe things will get better , maybe I can move past it , but I doubt it . Too much traumatizing ish around it .

Cheating isn't an accident it's a choice... so they chose to do it and over time they either get better at hiding it or get more careless as the care and respect has already gone so they not bothered if they get caught as they got so comfy in doing it... it's not going to end well

Once they’ve disrespected you and crossed that line then you can’t undo that . Taking them back shows you don’t respect yourself - obviously if you’re trapped financially that’s different , that’s strategic. Build yourself up until you got money and go and use them in the meantime 🤷‍♀️

I’m going through the exact same thing the father of my kids cheated on me multiple times while pregnant and during postpartum and now I can’t forgive him this time no matter how hard I try I think this is the end for us