Bedtime

Girl stoppp! You doing amazing! Im the same way my kiddo dont really have a bed time because he wont go to sleep without cuddling his dad or myself.. i have a newborn so its a lot too dont feel like that please you doing your best

How old is he?

4 months

thank you, your comment means so much to me. i’m really struggling postpartum and he’s my first baby. i’m doing my best to figure out things but i really don’t know what im doing most of the time and trying to be better for my baby

Please don't beat yourself up, your following his lead and that's personality the best thing you can do as their routine and needs will change so much in the first year! Keep going mamma your doing amazing 😊❤️

Your doing so well, its so easy to feel guilty for not doing this or simply going for a walk with them! Mum guilt eats us alive! My boy has never really had a routine, he's 13 months. He goes to sleep from anywhere between 7-10:30pm, i follow him and i feel comfortable doing that and thats what works for us, never feel guilty for not following certain things some mums obsesses over. On days we don't really have money i don't really go out but he happily plays and watches duggee which is his favourite, once my partners paid we go shopping on friday, the weekends we try and do much depending on how tired my partner is as he's a scaffolder or if he's working the weekend. We go on dog walks, out for food, see his nanny n grandad, aunties, uncles and cousins, or even simply walking to the shop. You can do it, its so hard being a first time mum or even being a mum in general!🩷us girls are here to help xx

If it works for all of you then do it. I never had schedules for either of my kids and that's what we thrive on. We let them decide when they are tired (within reason because my 3.5yo would stay up until 1am if you let him lol). If he's happy, healthy, and growing then I'd say you're doing fine

Oh hun that's so young. You're doing just fine.