Do you have hobbies as a parent of young children?

My children are 2 years and 7 months old, I struggle to find hobbies, just curious to see if other parents of young children have hobbies, if so what are they?

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My husband games on his PC and I love reading, cooking & going to the gym 😊

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please tell us how you achieve all of that with young children?!

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I play netball 2-3 times a week, I also move reading!
My partner runs 5-6 times a week 🥰

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I have a 1 year old 2 year old and 7 year old and I play football, I also game when the kids are napping/ in bed or I do Lego and diamond art
If I’m playing football they go to my mums for a few hours or they are at home with their dad if he isn’t at work o do also work as well

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I have a 4 year old daughter! She loves cooking with me so we bake & cook most days together. I only read and my husband only games when she is in bed asleep and I go to the gym in the morning after I drop her at school 😊

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I love cooking and baking. My daughter likes to get involved too

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I have hobbies. I love to draw, read and make things but I don’t really have the time anymore 😂 I have a 2 year old and am 7 months pregnant so any drawing and reading that I do anymore is with my daughter and by the time she’s in bed so am I 😴

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If cooking and going to work count as hobbies than yes, otherwise definitely not. My husband plays sports in the evening a couple nights a week and hunts

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I allow myself gardening as a hobby as it is something that has to be kept on top of anyway and still lets me be creative, get some exercise in and good for my wellbeing. The children play in the garden and I potter about. I got rid of all my many crafting things as it was space that we didn’t have with two small children.

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Cooking everything from scratch is my passion. This after my kid developed multiple food allergies, yay.

Cooking food, did become my main hobby out of need but I am an avid learner and have always been doing courses or professional development.

I also love photography and I continue to make great shots whenever I have a chance. I still need to edit and print them, though. According to my husband I should also sell them and make a book. We will come to it.

The rest of my hobbies are abandoned atm, but in a couple of years I may be able to resume.

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Mine are 3, 2, and turns 1 in less than a week❤️ I workout which usually takes most of my time I have available after chores and cleaning. But I start pottery projects with my set my husband got me and like to draw. Also trying to read but hard to fit stuff in lol I’m sahm, no childcare and my man works a lot so just nighttime and nap time to do anything

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I’m a single mum so it’s hard to do some hobbies I would like to try (pickle ball please don’t roast me for it lol) but I enjoy reading, creative makeup, learning tarot and astrology and I do some creative courses online when I get the chance 💖 I’m hoping once she goes to nursery and school I can start to do other hobbies on my days off like sports, painting groups and book clubs (I’m a bit of a geek lol) x

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Yes. Baking cooking gardening. Cutting/dying my hair, doing my nails, face masks, skincare, makeup. Out- checking out new bars, I’m a huge foodie and cocktail lover. And I do Pilates and Zumba for fitness, replaced them with salsa and bachata when he was 18m. There’s heaps of other stuff I love doing, but they are my main hobbies. If I’m not doing them, I’m watching tutorials to learn more. Going to expos, comedy shows, festivals. I check out whats on on my city to attend every weekend. Dance has consumed me the last couple of years- everything I do at home kind of compliments it. I just got home from a salsa lesson, I go Tuesdays and Fridays.

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Pilates, cars, motorcycles, yoga, skin care, wellness.

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A friend pointed out to me the other day that I do absolutely nothing for myself. I’ve started reading a chapter of my book every night as a start to feeling less guilty about doing something for me. I love reading but never prioritise it so this feels very special and doesn’t take away from kids / husbands time.

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My daughter is 5 now, and at school so I finally have time for hobbies. I read and I have an allotment. Before then no, there was no time.

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Exercise and gardening. I have an allotment to grow veg and fruit

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I knit or crochet a little. And I game one night a week. It’s hard with littles, but I try. I bake too, but not really for fun (more to help my family eat veggies) so I don’t really consider that a hobby for me.

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Let’s say you’re at a softplay with your 2 year old, and some friends & their toddlers.
You buy your 2 year old a kids meal - chicken nuggets, beans, and chips. They’re very happy with it and have almost eaten it all.
They’re sat at the table, fork in hand, consistently eating, and have one chicken nugget left.
Your adult friend comes over from behind you, picks up the last chicken nugget, and eats it.
There was no indication that your child wasn’t going to eat it, and they didn’t ask. They just took it with no warning and ate it right in front of you and your toddler.
How you reacting?

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Are these men ok?

I get so sad seeing all the posts on here daily about women dealing with partners who are treating them horribly. I know it seems over represented because those of us with great partners don’t need to write posts asking for help, but I really hope most of us don’t have these kinds of men in our lives!

I tell my husband about these posts I see sometimes and he’s even shocked by some of the things these guys say/do.

Nobody’s perfect, and every relationship takes work. And becoming parents is a stress test unlike any other for sure, but seeing how many women get stuck in these relationships with men who aren’t interested in being better is so so sad😞

But is/was your partner helpful, loving, and supportive during your pregnancy/PP/etc? Was he a wonderful person but changed for the worst after becoming a parent? Has he put effort into becoming the partner you need him to be, even if he struggles?

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Car issues

Idk if I’m in the wrong. I have a full time job. My husband takes care of the kids while I worked. Today was the day I was supposed to get us a car. But I couldn’t cause of the down payment. So now he’s texting me saying I’m wasting his day to be alone at Walmart so he can spend his tax return. I really want to say go ahead. Leave. Leave the kids and me alone. While you go out and spend money. While your at go ahead and buy urself your drugs and a bitch to go fuck.

Lucky I’m even thinking about him about the car situation if not I would’ve been buying me and the kids a car small enough for us!

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THIS DUMB 🍑 MF

LET ME BREAK IT DOWN 🤣🤣

THIS MAN DRIVES AN ELECTRIC CAR WHERE HE CAN PLUG HIMSELF IN (NORMALLY DOES TO DO DOORDASH ETC)
AND IT HAD A SPOT TO WIRELESSLY CHARGE
SOME HOW WITH 4 HOURS OF WORKING HE DIDN'T EVEN MAKE 20 BUCKS TO WASH CLOTHS ANOTHER RED FLAG

TWO NIGHTS AGO
HE CLAIMS TO GO OUT TO WORK. HANGS UP ON ME MID CONVERSATION 👀👀

4 HOURS PAST I'M GETTING SLEEPY STILL HAVEN'T HEARD FROM HIM
IT'S LIKE 1:30AM I TEXT HIM NIGHT I'M MAD CONFUSED ALMOST AN HOUR LATER I ANT HEARD FROM HIM SO I CHECK MY TEXT.
THE SHIT SAYS "PHONE OFFLINE" AND SHOWS THE TIME FRAME MY TEXT DIDN'T SEND
SO I START CALLING TO CONFIRM CAUSE I THOUGHT SOMETHING HAPPENED TO HIM. HE'S BEEN IN 2 CAR ACCIDENTS 👀 NEITHER HIS FAULT

SO I GET FRANTIC MY GUY

3:14 ROLLS AROUND I CALL AGAIN SURPRISE HE PICKS UP.
CLAIMS HIS PHONE DIED WHILE HE'S HANGING OUT AND HAVING A VERY "GOOD" CONVERSATION. HE WON'T TELL ME WHERE HE'S AT OR WHO WITH. MIND YOU THIS MAN CHEATED ON ME WHILE I WAS 33 WEEKS PREGNANT.

SO AT THIS POINT I'M PISSED OFF AND I TELL HIM I'M HANGING UP CAUSE I LOOK STUPID BEING WORRIED.

HE TURNS AROUND WHILE NOT BEING AROUND THIS CHICK AND FINALLY TELLS ME ALL THE DETAILS.

BTW YES WE MIGHT BE POLY BUT HE'S POSTED HIMSELF AS SOLO POLY WHILE LIVING WITH ME!! HE THINKS I'M. STUPID WITH ALSO THIS SNEAKY SHIT.

IF I WAS TO DO WHAT HE'S DOING HE'D LOOSE IT.
BUT I'M ABOUT TO GO OUTSIDE!! CAUSE YOU PLAYING IN MY FACE

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Nursery lunches?

My daughter is nearly 10 months old and starting nursery next month. I want to send my daughter in with lunches so I know shes eating healthy meals but I'm honestly so lost as to what to put in her little bento lunch box that will keep till lunch time and doesnt need reheating. Ive been doing loads of baby led weaning at home, but I tend to make it fresh or pull stuff from the freezer I've previously made and defrost and reheat.
Could you show me some of the lunches you've been giving your baby? Or have you been been letting the nursery deal with the food?

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Activities with baby

I’m so tired of not finding enough things to do with my 10 month old baby boy. What do you guys do to keep them engaged. I’m not giving him any screen time actually he’s not interested either in watching tv.
Any ideas and tips what to do with them I’m so tired 😣

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