Tipping hairstylist

If no how much should I give her?

Licensed cosmetologist here. Love coffee, it doesn't pay the bills, though... and that's what we all go to work for. I'm sure thus wasn't your intention, but you essentially decided that a portion of her money would be spent on coffee. It wasn't really a free gift.

Gratuities are optional, so your kindness in providing a tip and purchasing a coffee was likely appreciated. Some individuals may not be in a position to tip, and it is not mandatory, so whatever you were able to offer that day, I'm sure, was appreciated.

I actually didn’t decide that was a part of her tip lmao but thanks for assuming that 🫶🏼 would have gotten the same amount for a tip coffee or not

Dude, you literally made a post asking if you did the right thing... A lot of people seem to think that kind gestures are a fair substitute for money... like I said, coffee is nice, but it's not comparable to money. 20% tip on a $200 service is $40. You shorted her $20 and bought her a $10 or less drink instead of giving her $20. From an outside perspective, it looks like you purchased a drink for a fraction of what the other half of her tip *should* have been. That $10-$20 could have gone to a bill, but you turned it into a beverage. This is just my perspective.

Final answer... No, it wasn't enough.

I tip a minimum of 20%. You say coffee wasn’t part of the tip but you also are trying to justify the tip by mentioning that you brought her coffee.

Yeah that’s loads! I don’t understand the need to tip at all. Especially when someone is setting their own prices? That’s crazy to me. If their work doesn’t pay enough that they are reliant on tips then they need to up their prices. Obviously in a restaurant we will tip if we get a good service. I’m sure she’s really grateful and the drink was really thoughtful.

This is such a wild take for anyone that isn’t in the US 🤣

glad you aren’t my stylist 🥰

and I also said that I would have tipped her the same with our without a drink, if you can read 🥰

Wow, a pissing match now...? Girl bye

I did read that but that doesn’t change the fact you are trying to justify the tip with the drink if the drink doesn’t have anything to do with the tip why mention it at all. You should have just asked if $25 is enough. You are just salty that not everyone agrees with you and you are defensive and getting nasty.

I don't think a tip is required at all. So anything above the cost of service is great!

However, I personally would have given a $50 tip and still brought a coffee. My stylist has been doing my hair for close to 20 years now and is outstanding. She has her own private salon and sets her own rates. 100% goes to her business. But I adore her and her work. I refuse to go to anyone else. Even since moving to another state. I still go see her a few times a year. She gets a hearty tip, and treats for her and her little boy.

I am a huge supporter of independent small businesses, and even though they CAN set their own rates, overhead is ridiculously high. So, to stay competitive, they have to set rates reasonably enough to get clients. Therefore, I tip. JM2C.

I’m not salty about people not agreeing with me 😂I’m tired of people like you not reading the comments and saying something I already explained 😱

feel free to leave my post 🤗

I said what I said based on what you said in all your comments. I read all comments before I make a comment. I clearly read that the tip was going to be the tip regardless of the coffee because I said that you said coffee wasn’t part of the tip ie $25 was the tip. I fully understood that the tip was only $25 with or without the drink but you mentioned the drink at the start like that justifies a $25 tip. You started second guessing your tip (like you said in the post) so you came here looking to feel better about your tip that didn’t happen and now you are mad.

And attacking the people that didn’t agree with you.

like I said not mad about people disagreeing. Annoyed that people can’t read 🤗

I done explaining it to you. Go ahead and believe I can’t read my comment wouldn’t make sense if I hadn’t read your comment to Evelyn and the main post.

💯 this

if I go to a restaurant and you give terrible service you’re not getting a tip, sorry not sorry 🤷🏼‍♀️

I believe questions like this open the door for unsolicited opinions from “strangers” who don’t know your personal finance. Only you can define “enough”. Tip what you can, when you can. ☮️

I’m sure she appreciated it!

As a previous stylist no.

No. It isn’t.

so. What is an acceptable tip to you then?💀

At least $40

come on now! you should be tipping at least 20😂😭

Any service at least 20% idk why this is confusing

probably bc prices are already outrageous

I tip 20-25% because that is industry standard. If someone goes above and beyond or discounts their service I tip more. If there is an issue it would go down.

Ahhh that so nice of u! ur better than me. I don’t feel the need to tip if I don’t want to & I don’t feel bad abt it at all cuz it’s not a must lol. expecting or Feeling like u HAVE to give a minimum of 20% for services is wild! Omg tipping culture is out of control
Cuz it’s optional not required. 🗣️ So u did more than enough in my opinion cuz Gratuities are not mandatory

All of you who don’t tip or don’t tip accordingly, that’s totally your choice. But understand people in the service industry remember shitty tippers, and it will show.

I'm in Australia so we don't tip here. I assume that seems fair 🧐🤷🏼‍♀️🥴 oh isn't normal around 20% I'm not used to it lol

expecting or requiring customers & clients to tip because employers aren’t paying thier employees enough living wage is crazy work. & the residents of those states that are still doing that need to vote to change those laws asap. Ppl shudnt be expected to tip at all, & employees shouldn’t expect tips. lol bt ur right what tipping culture has become is only slightly less disturbing.
& speaking of race, I actually hear micro aggressions all the time with stereotypes that “black ppl don’t tip” like that’s a crime lol I’m like “okay so is that like A bad thing or an insult” lol cuz I’m that black person who doesn’t tip cuz I know I don’t have to 🤭 & I refuse to feel bad/pressured or required into doing so 😬🫠

“don’t deserve good service” yikes girl 😳

no one is saying that this singular instance makes you a bad tipper. Burns and injuries not only shouldn’t be tipped they may not even need to be paid. But the topic is not tipping or under tipping in general.

please don’t put words in my mouth. I said I tipped 20 to 25% because that standard if the service is not up to par it goes down which would imply that if the service resulted in me having burns, it could very well be zero. If you’re reading to argue and not reading to understand, then this is a pointless dialogue

baby they should have been paying you bc what 😳😳