separation anxiety

anyone else in the separation anxiety sleep regression? ours (9 months and five days) has been tough to put to sleep the last few weeks. prior to this she had been putting herself to sleep easy every night no problem. now every night at bedtime she protests and the second i leave the room she stands and cries 😭

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Just got thru this. It’s so tough, my 9 month old was also putting herself to sleep prior to this. I wish I had the answer other than give it time. She did this for about a month; protested at bedtime and if she woke up in the middle of the night it would take two hours to get her back down . On the bright side: my older daughter didn’t sleep thru the night for her first two years. So this minor blip felt like nothing in comparison. We joke those first two years were her sleep regression 😂

My daughter is a great sleeper. Sometimes, she has issues. Turning nine months old has changed everything. Now she wakes up and refuses her bottle; she wants contact sleep. She is literally half my height. She's between 28" and 29", and I'm 4'11". I can't sleep with her on top of me! Sometimes, she eventually takes her bottle.

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Bath Time

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Anyone else extremely sad and anxious to leave their first born😭

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Crying during feeding

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Sleeping

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Bedtime holding

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