I don’t want this post to sound like I’m bashing my husband but I feel like he is unsupportive of any career goals I have because he wants me to be a sahm.
I love staying home with my baby. He’s the best thing in my life but I’ve always had multiple jobs since I was 16. I’ve always been super ambitious. I recently began writing a business plan and touring locations to open a business and he is now telling me to wait. Meanwhile two days ago he’s showing me 50s housewife dresses he’s found online that he thinks I’d look good in. I just can’t help but think he doesn’t want me to work or find fulfillment outside of the home even though he says he’ll support me.
I love him and our son but I don’t want to change who I am in motherhood. I don’t know what to do or say
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You should do whatever makes you happy!

Say exactly that

Funny how husband thinks differently
I don’t think he likes me to be SAHM! He rather for me to go to work!!!!

I say compromise is necessary in a marriage. Maybe if you talk y’all can reach an agreement like after a couple years of being a sahm you can get back to your career or something like that