My baby daddy has a porn addiction
Its not worth being in a relationship with someone like this. He has a porn addiction and doesn’t even realize it and it affected our relationship the whole time. It doesnt feel right to me. Its crazy to me because we had great sex everyday.
The first time, i caught him stalking his coworkers (multiple girls) bikini pics online WHILE I WAS SLEEPING. He even zoomed in. He admit he was wrong, unfollowed all the girls and deactivated his IG. Fine.
This is where it got worse. He started staring at other girls irl and trying to talk to them IN FRONT OF ME. I would confront him and he SWEARS he did nothing wrong and that men and women can be friends (hes literally lusting over them) and that its okay as long as we go home together. And that im being insecure. I said no thats wrong.
He even eyed a server on my BDAY and kept holding the cup up to her face every time she refilled it, i’ve never seen anyone do that. he was just basically super attentive to her like he doesnt even do shit like that for me. He kept looking for her and even said “why arent they coming to our table often, why do they show the other tables so much more attention?” woowww maybe its BECAUSE YOU’RE BEING A CREEP. When it was time to go, we stood up and i was walking away to leave like a normal person would do. he didnt even walk with me. He still stood by the table and looked around the restaurant so he can see her or something or maybe say bye. I felt like he was waiting for her for no reason. I confront him, he said he was trying to ask for the BR. So he couldnt ask that when he was paying the bill?? He said im trippin and makign shit up and that im crazy and that i always constantly think hes cheating on me.
Funny thing is i never once asked if he was, all i ever did was confront him about the shit he does when it comes to other women.
There are more stories but i will keep it simple.
It just kept getting worse. We broke up but hes always trying to be in my life. I just regret everything, i wish i never met him.
Am i overreacting? I swear he gaslit me to the point that i think im mean. But i just cant let any of that slide
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my god, what a predator?? i hope you’re okay😔
lol 🫣
He ever asked you to have a threesome?
I had a boyfriend similar like him in the past
i just hate that i feel hurt about it and he just plays it off with no regards to how i feel.
no but he kept trying to encourage me to make an OF or be a stripper or model or just do something very similar and make friends with other girls who do the same. I told him if im going to do any of that stuff, then i dont want to be with you. He said why?? I told him its clear that you just want to creep around women i make friends with.
Hey my ex was similar about only f*
And he ever tell you to be walking all time naked in the house?
wow im sorry girly, that just made me sad to hear what you went through. Their minds are so disturbing to me
Yes and he will always be like that, that is mental issues , do you have kids?
sorry i didnt see your question. no he didnt tell me to do that, but he called me prude everytime i told him hes acting like a creep when he does shit like this. So i guess he knows hes one?? I have one kid but i have sole custody while he pays child support. I chose to live in a different state from him, i dont want my son seeing the things he does. Kids do learn from their parents. I dont think hes ready to be a dad if he cant even be a decent person
it is, when we go out he doesnt space out around other people. But when we’re at home alone, hes always spacing out like his brain isnt there. The whole thing is so weird to me
definitely, i have him blocked for the past 7 months. Theres no reason for me to talk to him. But its irritating that my dad and him still text/call each other. Everything my dad tells me sounds like hes trying to slowly come back into my life
girl this isn’t life. this is torture. please please please understand you’re not over reacting
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